Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Far too many of you are showing up with plenty of Speed Seduction® language patterns bouncing around in your heads, without having any connection to your body.

That’s like confusing the ventriliquists dummy with the ventriliquist.

If you are an overanalytical, left-brained guy, or just numb from the neck down from years of supressing anger, pain, frustration, then this video is a great start to introduce you to a simple way to get back in your body.

And I do mean FUCKING SIMPLE. Anyone can do it.

Step 1: Watch video

Step 2: Comment

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  The video above is ripped straight from my course on “Showing Up Attractive,” the companion to our brand new “Sexual Aggression Mastery” course.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time after time, you hear about a guy trying to get some woman to like him.  This message of “impressing her,” “going the extra mile,” etc. is played out all the time in the movies, music, and other dreck pumped out by the romance industry.

Most of the time the “moral” of the story is “just be yourself.”

Bullshit.

First, foremost, uppermost, important-most, you must get this: there’s a distinction between going out and thinking, “I’m going to get a girl to like me. I have to get that girl to like me,” and “I’m going to have fun with this and take it as far as I can go with it.”

It’s exhausting to try to get people to like you. You don’t want to do that. That’s not what you’re here for. Why the f@@k do you want to keep chasing after people? “Please like me. Let me show you this pattern. You’re so beautiful. I like you. Please like me.”

That’s not what it’s about.  

Rather, it’s about… can you find a place inside that says, “What are my boundaries?  Let me root into my feet, breathe from my belly, push my boundaries about what I think is possible for myself, and see how much fun I can have playing with people and giving them an experience that connects me with them and makes me feel good.”

When you find yourself trying to get some chick to like you, try this:

Recall times when you did feel deeply connected with people and felt an understanding, bond and connection. Wrap yourself in that.

Otherwise it does turn into, “I’m going to be a dancing monkey and do these clever patterns.”  You’ll be saying to yourself, “Why should I bother doing all this stuff? Why should I have to jump around and do all this? I’m a man.”

What the f@@k?

You don’t need to do a lot. You don’t need to do a million things. Just engage women’s attention. Get through that initial five or 10 minutes where they’re really hooked into talking to you.

Then just put a little bit of a sexual intent in there. Draw them out. You’ll see how easy this gets. Remember to add in the touching. There’s friendly, dominant and sensual touch.

To run after a stranger and say, “Please like me,” is not manly or fun.

I’m showing you a better way.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Trying to “impress a chick” is often a symptom of stuck points and not having mastered the skill of generating attraction – often without even opening your mouth.  In my Showing Up Attractive course (the companion to Sexual Aggression Mastery), I show you how to blast past through all that.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Talk about a buzz kill.

How many times does it happen – you’re back at her place, snuggled together on the couch.  You’re making out with her.  Things are heating up, in every sense of the word.

Somewhere in the back of your mind you hear the train whistle (“Full Steam A-head!”), the crack of baseball bat hitting ball (“HOME RUN!!!”), or even a scanning of your personal inventory (“Did I remember the condom?”)

But then you hear a screeching noise.  As in, to a grinding halt, usually signalled by an abrupt end to the grinding.

So what just happened to your sexual agenda, your aggression, your desire? Where did it go?  Now SHE’s the one who turns it on and off, because suddenly she’s not comfortable. You, in turn, become uncomfortable and you shut yourself down.

Then what do you do? You wait for an engraved invitation. She has to write in gold letters “Please f@@k me now” and sign it.

Are you a recovering nice guy? 

If what I’ve just described sounds familiar (as it does to millions of smart men the world over) I’m willing to bet that one of your issues is you’re so emotionally in tune to women, when they start feeling something, you feel it for yourself.

Part of untangling this issue of being sexually aggressive is this ability to stay grounded in your body, see where she’s at, but not have to go there for yourself.

I didn’t say: you never go there or you can’t go there if you choose to.  If you’re making love with your woman and she’s feeling an incredible sexual desire, yeah, you want to go where she is. But it’s that matter of choice.

Dominant has nothing to do with having big muscles or pushing people around or any of that. That’s the imitation of dominance. That’s the counterfeit of dominance. That’s the impersonation of dominance.  That’s being a jerk.  Jerks literally cannot feel what their woman is feeling.

True sexual aggression mastery makes you a leader in every phase of your relationship to women.  It lets you see where they are at without having to go there yourself, so you can stay in the emotional lead.

Now, that sure beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If you’ve ever found yourself “choking” at the moment of truth, backing away from being sexually forward, or easily put off by the slightest “resistance” offered by a woman, my new Sexual Aggression Mastery course will untangle all that for you.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

F@@k it to hell and back again.

I am so excited and so wanting to spill the beans on the “Sexual Aggression Mastery” course that I am scheduling a live event on Tuesday, December 27 at 12:00 Noon Pacific to give you a great preview, plus answer your questions.

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To cut to the chase and sign up now, click here:
http://www.rjforwardattraction.com/launch/see-rj-live/

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Here is the scoop…

To “sweeten the pot” the guys who ask the 5 top best questions during the Q &A will win free and instant admission to the complete Sexual Aggression Mastery Course, plus also get immediate access to the companion “Showing Up Attractive” course.

Everyone who is on the “Insider” Launch List will have access to this live video broadcast.

Get ready. Because it all goes down on… Tuesday, December 27 at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

Just click here and enter your name and e-mail in the form on the right hand side to lock in your spot on the live broadcast:

http://www.rjforwardattraction.com/launch/see-rj-live/

Peace, piece, and see you there,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Today I’d like to reveal another clip from the Sexual Aggression Mastery Course, and man, could this save you a lot of time, frustration and wasted effort.

It has to do with getting a woman invested in the seduction, so she knows what actions she has to take, based on those feelings.

This is a fantastic way to avoid “last minute resistance” and to get her eager to jump you.

Have a look:

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. We open the doors on Tuesday, December 27.  Don’t miss the chance to get in on it even earlier.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I just wanted to give you a VERY important-no, make that CRUCIAL-heads-up notice.

In less than two weeks (right after Christmas) we will be opening the doors to “Sexual Aggression Mastery” and “Showing Up Attractive”-the first complete structured course I’ve put out since the Secret Training Collection, this time last year. This represents my latest, greatest teaching and material for practicing and mastering the seduction/persuasion arts.

To get the full story, click here:

http://www.rjforwardattraction.com/launch/

“See you” there!

- RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It takes training to recognize progress as one moves from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Speed Seducer® who has mastered his skills and is achieving success with the woman he truly desires.

Learn more in this short clip:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. With Nail Your Inner Game, you get the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck entirely, or stuck at a very underachieving level, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Does playing hard-to-get make you more attractive to women?   Will letting her know you’re displeased with her make her want to give you more pleasure?

These are among the questions asked my a student of mine:

>I find out sometimes I show dissatisifaction with women and can get more control over them. They will ask what they can do for me, am I satisfied, et cetera, like they are afraid of getting me angry.

>So I would like to ask here, are there ways to test women like they will test you at first to see if they will take your bullshit?  Should I “sometimes” ignore women or teasing women, I don`t know if this will make me more attractive to them?  I think control is a little like attraction, is that right?

Alright, let’s dissect this… 

1. Control is an illusion. Humans are chaotic, complex, and at best, you have influence.
2. Do you want “control” – or what you perceive you’ll get as a result of “control”: more priority, more respect, more compliance? “Control” is really just a tool to achieve these other things. If you can get these other things without “control” then fantastic.
3. I would express dissatisfaction as part of an overall strategy of letting people know where they stand and where **I** stand. I wouldn’t do it as a tactic to create compliance. I’d do it to set things clear and make sure people(male, female) etc know my rules and that I DO have rules.

Now, it is true, some humans, and some women(the younger and less sure of themselves) do need and do respond to being dominated and “controlled” at every turn.

The problem is, this is a royal pain in the ass and a lot of work.  Not what I want.  I want a human being who can initiate and take the lead on occasion, not a mindless slave who fears displeasing me at any second.

To attract HEALTHY women:

• Create great feelings in them and link them to you
• Take those feelings away if they violate a major rule of yours that you have told them about or if they continue to violate less major rules. The worst “punishment” is to withdraw your company and attention.
• Call them on their bullshit WHEN they do it, in a firm but fair way.

BTW if your rules are that they must ALWAYS do as you say, must NEVER disagree and must NEVER have desires of their own that don’t include you, then your rules must be immediately repealed and replaced with something healthy.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When you know what to look for and how to use a woman’s emotional responses, she will actually provide almost all of the energy for the seduction.  In your live weekend 3-day Speed Seduction® seminar, you’ll learn to do this through lecture, drill and live “hands on” learning with female volunteers.

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I’m proud to announce the Grand Re-Opening of the MindFrame Persuasion® Home Study Course!

It’s open, ready, and waiting for you.

Head on over to http://www.MindFramePersuasion.com and claim your access right now!

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

RJ here, and I’ll be brief.

In just three (3) hours, at 12:00 Noon Pacific today (Friday December 9) we are re-opening the MindFrame Persuasion® Home Study Course!

Same great content, new delivery method – it’s now 100% online!

When you claim your access, you’ll be taken to create a username and password so you can dive right in.

At 12:00 Noon Pacific, be at http://www.MindFramePersuasion.com or be square.

“See you” at high noon.

Peace and piece,

RJ