Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

What’s worse than being in that “not so sweet spot” where you’ve met a woman, and you don’t know what to say to her? There she is – right in front of you, this incredibly sexy hot babe who, up until now, you never in a million years DREAMED would be sitting right next to you, hanging on every word you say. Yet…

… you can’t find the friggin’ words!

Rather than dazzling her with smooth banter, you’re internally going berserk while hoping she doesn’t notice the 24-pound giant cat that has sunk his claws into your tongue and stretched it all the way to the floor like a flaccid fruit roll-up.

Later the “right words” will come to you, all right. While you’re back at your place, alone, imagining what it would have been like to score with her.

Well, all that’s about to change. Effective immediately, I hereby declare a “State of Sarge” because it’s time to …

… Get Into The State For Conversating, So You Don’t End Up M*****bating!

Many guys find they don’t have a lot to say when she’s right there, because he’s “been there” before. Say the wrong thing, or even say the right thing but with the wrong pitch, and she’ll drop you faster and harder than an 18-pound bowling ball comes crashing when dropped off an 18-story building.

When you find yourself internally whining to yourself about girls who “shot you down” on the playground in third grade, you’re not going to be in the state of Sarge that gets you to home base with the woman who’s here, right now.

Instead, close your eyes, relax, and alter the “shot down” state you’re in. Visualize the results you’ll be getting when having the right conversations with women. Focus on how you WANT things to be and the way you WANT things to go, and the chances are you’ll get there a hell of a lot faster.

Have you recently had a Sarge that went horribly wrong? Does it seem like your overall “batting average” with the ladies is in a slump? Do you find yourself so wrapped up in what went wrong, that you can’t vision things going right?

When you find yourself reflecting on “Sarges gone bad,” I challenge you to focus on what went RIGHT. Then, release any worry or angst about the “dumb things you said or did” and the moment when she gave you a dirty look and walked out on you. Because now, it doesn’t matter.

Stay focused on where you WANT to go (that being, back to your place for a night or weekend of “screaming with ecstasy ’till the neighbors call the cops, mind-blowing” sex)… and with that vision as your guiding force, you’ll get there faster.

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

OK, so it’s time to hit the town… but you’re sitting home alone.

Maybe all your pals are married or in committed relationships (or perhaps “real-hate-shun-ships by default”) so you don’t have a wingman to help you approach the “b#%ch-packs.”

Could be you have no one to go out with (did you actually try asking people, or are you ASSUMING everyone’s busy or not interested?) and you feel awkward going out alone. Maybe you’re out of town and it feels weird going out alone.

Any way you look at it, you’re not out there meeting women. Instead you’re doing something else, involving a word that sounds like “meet.”

The (Likely) Real Reason You’re With Rosie And Her Sisters Tonight
Instead Of Making Out With Dazzling, Delicious Debbie

Perhaps you’re tried Sarging on some hotties, but having gotten the brush-off more often than you expected, you’re coming up with any dang ol’ excuse to stay planted on your Seduction a$% instead of taking to the field.

The easiest one is “I hate going out alone.” Well, join me as I show you …

… Three Surefire Places To Find And Flirt With Fine Women,
Without A Wingman Or A Pu#$y-Pulling Posse

Here are three places you can start looking, right now:\

• Street / store sarging. The best places to meet women are not “meat markets.” Get into the Sarging zone by talking to everybody. Before you know it, approaching a hot woman, anytime, anywhere, will be just a day in your life, not an “event” that you prepare for.
• Organized Social Events. What do wine tastings, dance classes, cocktail parties, party cruises, and networking events all have in common? Lots of hot, exciting women. You already have an “if all else fails” ice-breaker because you know you have at least ONE thing in common.
• Plan Your Flight, Hotel… And Sarging Zone. If you’re going to be out of town, do some advance research before you travel so you know the hot spots to hit while you’re in a new town. Are there organized social events in that town that strike your fancy? Get on Google and let your fingers do the walking. You’ll find something.

  Let me do the math for you… New City + New Women = New Adventures.

Get good at mixing it up and talking to everybody when your friends aren’t around. Then, when you meet cute, available women, your social wheels will already be turning and you’ll be the master of your girl-getting game.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

When you pay a woman a direct compliment, you may well be buying yourself a one-way ticket to Dry Willy City rather than a pass to the all-you-can-eat buffet of erotic desire.

Direct compliments (such as “Wow, you really look good today” and “You have the most beautiful, warm, inviting eyes I’ve ever seen”) may not go over well because:

• She doesn’t really believe it about herself;
• She has reason to believe that you don’t really mean it and are just saying it to get in her pants;
• She has reason to believe you mean it, she believes it about herself too, but it just doesn’t impress her or speak to her in a way that results in her feeling positive about it. She is too used to hearing it directly, so it has lost impact. She’s heard it all before;
• Because of how she perceives your status or your degree of familiarity with her, she doesn’t believe you should be saying it.

The Power Of Implication And How It Says So Much More…
Especially Because You Don’t Directly Say It

A key point that I drive home again and again is the power of implied compliments. The implied compliment states something about women who have the qualities you are complimenting her about… and then IMPLIES by virtue of the fact that you are addressing her that she must fit into that group.

This works because making sense of what is implied is an active process. The listener has to put together the thought/connect the dots on her own. The thought is, “Oh…he is saying he thinks that about me! How sweet!”

Or, “Oh, he is saying he isn’t sure that is true about me…I better prove to him that it is!”

Here’s an example.

“It’s just that I admire women with really strong fashion sense, so I had to say hello” is saying the following:

1. I admire women who have strong fashion sense.
2. When I admire women like that I am compelled to say hello.
3. I am compelled to say hello to you.

The implication is:

She has really strong fashion sense.

See how this works?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Should you ever accept a woman’s “excuses” for cancelling a date or meeting? Do you know how to successfully handle those cases where you really should give a woman another chance? Or do you keep getting sucked into another round of time and attention wasting female flim-flammery?

Bask In My Wisdom, Seduction-Master-In Training!

My rules for this are very simple:

1. No matter how good an “excuse” may sound to you, remember most women are excellent liars, and text makes it exceedingly easy for even a poor liar to do it quite well. After all, you can’t hear voice tone or inflection, which are two big keys to when a chick is fibbing.(Hint: another key is, she is moving her lips!)
2. The bottom line is that a woman who is truly interested in spending time with you but for some legitimate reason just can’t do so, will make her interest very clear, almost certainly by asking if she can see you another time and day.
3. What women do is far more important than what they say. What they say can easily play into your neediness, horniness, need for validation, etc. etc. What they do is clear and easy to see.

There’s No Excuse, For Date-Break Abuse!

So under what circumstances should you give a date-breakin’ chick another shot at the honor of riding your pink steel? And when should you shine her on as a waste of the space she’s squatting in?

Well, from what I’ve written above, it ought to be pretty clear, Buckwheat. The only scenario where I would even consider her as a prospect is if she makes it very clear in the text that cancels, that she really does want to spend time with you.

Anything else you need to either:

A) Forget it and move on

B) Put her in your mental “refrigerator” for 30 days. After 30 days goes by, text her and say, “Hey…if you see that cool fun girl I thought I met, have her text me. She was kinda interesting”.

Here’s the deeper truth: when you know how to easily meet women, anytime, anywhere, and quickly capture and lead their imagination and emotions, you won’t give two toots in hell if an occasional bimbo doesn’t get the value of having you bend her over your sofa and giving her the old “Sargy One Two Three”.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye, don’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Seeing smart guys like you master the tools and proven strategies that get you all the hot, sexy, desirable women you want is the “payoff” of being a Seduction teacher. As I like to say…

The women are waiting, now what are you waiting FOR???

I recently got a letter from a student who has been talking to a girl for about three months now. He tells me he’s been keeping things mostly casual, running patterns or pieces of patterns here and there and just structuring his language in a better way then what he believes the typical Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) would.

But from what I gather, he really has not been working that hard though. She gives him lots of signs that she likes him, such as texting him about 50 times a day, remembering virtually everything he ever says to her, going out of her way to see him, etc. He tells me she always wants more when he runs a pattern on her, but he pulls back and makes her work for it, like he’s “teasing” her.

He wonders why he hasn’t scored with this chick yet, after three months.

Let’s dissect this.

Uh…first of all, what part of the “Speed” in “Speed Seduction®” did he miss?

The minute I see something like this, I already know what the problem is. This is a thinking that is focused more on not making mistakes than it is on doing what will work.

Guys, here is the real problem with this “talk to a girl for 3 months” approach: it is more focused on getting the girl than it is ON MASTERING THE SKILLS.

Instead, think in terms of every woman you meet as being an opportunity to help someone feel a bit better about their day AND ANOTHER STEP TOWARDS MASTERY OF YOUR SKILLS.

I think this student, and any guy in this situation, would benefit a great deal from reviewing their beliefs about learning. Here are three good ones:

1. ***I*** decide what I learn from every person, event, situation, and action in my life. ****I**** decide what meaning I give things.
2. I will either enjoy the process of getting what I want (or better) or I will enjoy getting what I want (or better) or BOTH.
3. When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

So as far as this chick, what are you waiting FOR? An engraved invitation? I think you know what they say about “those who wait.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

I fucking hate Valentine’s day like a fat kid hates sugar-free chocolate cake.

As you probably know, this isn’t just a matter of being personally cranky(although I can be cranky, as you long-time fans know).

No, this is a matter of seeing it as one more giant piece of corporate/social propaganda, designed to reinforce the message that we guys have to beg and buy our way into womens’ collective vaginal favor.

So this year, I’ve decided to really do something to mark out my disdain and to give you guys a leg up in your quest for the pink abundance.

Join Me For These Two Special “Give V-Day The Finger” Events

So the first thing I’ve decided to do is to hold a special 4-hour marathon, live video “Speed Seduction(R)” seminar broadcast on Ustream, Feb 14th, starting at 12 noon Pacific time.

Here is the schedule:

Hour 1, Noon-1PM-Inner Game Mastery Blueprint

Hour 2: The New Day Game Mastery System

Hour 3: Sexual Languaging Made Easy

Hour 4: How To Use Quizzes And Games To Intrigue And Turn On Women

Sound good?

Hey, let me remind you of something: this is your chance to get 4 hours of live, high quality, masterful instruction on the topics you want to learn, from the founder of the seduction community.  (Just try getting some of the other guys from “The Game” to even talk to you for less than $5,000 an hour!)

Event #2: 30% Off  24 Hr Sale Of My Entire Product Catalog

Again, starting 12 Noon pacific on Feb 14th, until 12 Noon Pacific Feb 15th we will be opening the doors to pass holders to a 30% discount sale off the entire catalog.  (Oh, yeah-all orders over $650 will get a personal “thank you” call from me and a chance to chat for a few minutes personally if I get you on the phone!)

Yes There’s One Small Catch: 4 Minutes Gets You 4 Hours, Learning From Me

Look: it’s time I really, really heard from you fans and students to find out what you’d like to see from me in the future with my live events and programs. So to get your two passes to these events, you need to sign up to take a brief, 12 question survey.

I’ve timed it and it will take 4 minutes to complete.  That’s it.  4 minutes gets you 4 hours of my live, best quality teaching and 30% off my entire catalog.

I’d say that’s a deal anyway you slice it.

Just go here to watch a video that explains it all.

Peace, piece and see you on Feb 14th

RJ

P.S. Oh yeah, in case you are wondering, there WILL be a replay of the recording of the live 4 hour mini Speed Seduction(R) video seminar.  But ONLY people who sign up will get access to it. I’m not kidding-the general public ain’t never gonna see it.

Just go here to find out more.

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Dear Speed Seduction Students,
Wow. Just wow. You are really giving me some great stories about your own crazy chick encounters.

Please know that I read each comment and respond to each one. And I’ll pick a winner for “Craziest Chick Story” soon.

Now, as promised, here is MY crazy chick story.

About 10 years ago I met this chick at a party.  She was a bit wary of me, but after I literally walked away from her, she wound up running after me, outside the party, and handing me her number. (Was this the first hint?)

Cut to about 4 days later. She’s over at my place. I give her the art tour of my place, pointing out the various comic art, etc.

We go to my bedroom and I show her a painting done by one of my friends at the time; it’s Eve right after she took a bite of the apple.  She seems unusually fixated on it, but I thought nothing of it(Warning sign number two?)

She notices a book on my book shelf about remote viewing, and asks if she can borrow it.  “Ok,” I think. “No big deal”. So I lend it to her.

We wind up doing the nasty thing, she leaves my place, and that’s that. Or so I think.

About a week later I get a Hannukah card from her. It basically says how happy she was to meet me, what a great night she had, and Happy Hannukah to me and my cat.

It Gets Super-Werid HERE!

So I’m sitting at California Pizza Kitchen when I get a call from Nutso.  She says, “I just wanted to tell you that I only sent you that card to wish you Happy Hannukah and NO OTHER REASON(shouting this last bit with quite some anger).

Ah…say what?

“Ok….” I manage to stammer.

Then she drops the bomb

“I want to ask you a question. I want to know and I want the truth. Are….you…a….remote…viewer?”

(Pause here for a second: “remote viewing” allegedly involves the psychic act of mentally tapping into a “target” and describing information about the target, usually by sketching what the viewer sees . Google it!)

“Uh…no” I reply “Why?”

“Because I have your book that you lent me and I think you ARE a remote viewer. And I think you are part of the harrassment progrgam and you KNOW IT!”(Screaming that last part so loud the person sitting next to me heard it through my phone’s earpiece and turned to look at me!)

But she wasn’t done.

“That painting on the wall in your room?  Every night since my trip to Mexico where those two men who wait outside my house and follow me to work first met me, I have that electronic buzzing in my head that wakes me up. And the night before I met you at that party, the buzzing woke me up and I saw a holographic image of that painting, projected in the air in front of me. SO I KNOW IT IS YOU!”

Heard enough?

This dinged-damsel procedes to tell me that she is going to sue me, sue my “masters at the CIA”, etc etc.

My response? “Lady, you are fucking crazy.  CRAZY. Get help. Professional help. And never call me again.”

Can you believe it?

What do you think? Can you top this?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. 6 months later I get my book back the mail, with a lovely “thank you note” telling me how much she enjoyed meeting me and inviting me to coffee! YOWWWWWSA! NUTTEEEEEE!!!!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students

It would be no exaggeration to say that many women in today’s modern world are, to put it mildly “a little bit dinged”.

From the “Fatal Attraction” violent loonies, to the loopy New-Age “dolphin channelers”, whacked out femmes are in abundant supply.

Zack’s Nightmare Beyatch From Hades

Case in point: last week, I hung out with a friend I haven’t seen in years, my old buddy Zack. And he was telling me about his last girlfriend whom he dated for a year.

“Man, RJ, “he said. “She was fucking NUTS!”

Here is what he told me: after he told her he was breaking up with him, she walked into his apartment while he was about to fall asleep, after he had taken an Ambien(which he uses for insomnia).

She opens up his mouth and feeds him the remaining 5 pills in the bottle!

I shit you not.

The chick tried to OD him while he was already zonked out!

It gets better:  she gets on his Myspace page and proceeds to deface it with false confessions of liking kiddie porn, tax evasion, etc etc etc.

And so, dear reader, while you may not have had some savagely insane skank try to feed you dangerous meds while you already are in a stupor, I’m sure you’ve met your own nutty nut bars of some kind.

So I open it for discussion below: how do YOU define “Crazy Chick”? What are the various categories and types of Loop-de-Loop chicas that populate our modern world?

Best answer wins a “No Prize” from me.

Peace, piece and let’s hear what you have to say NOW!

RJ

P.S. I will share my wackiest chick story tomorrow.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

One of the most important components of Seduction is the “vibe” you put out there – meaning, how women perceive who you are and what you give to the world when you approach them.

There will always be women who are simply unable or unwilling, for reasons that are not yours to figure out, to accept the gifts you offer.

I’m frequently asked: what is the right way to handle women behaving toward you in a very rude manner?

For example, blatantly insulting you while you both wait in line at a pizza shop for no reason? Or being rude to you as if she’s testing you, or as if she has more of a right to exist than you do?

First, realize that anyone who gets rude or angry at your genuine, decent behaviour has a problem. It is about THEM, not YOU.

Here are three ways you can powerfully handle the situation and turn it to your advantage:

1. Use humour. Shake your head, and say, “Wow..I hope you get over the guy who really f@@ked you up…do you spell that “Daddy” or “Papa”?
2. Just hold compassion for them as a person in pain and say nothing, or say, “Wow. I’m sorry I interrupted you while you were being miserable.” (Credit to Stephane Hemon of ideaGasms for that one!)
3. Challenge them to something better, say,“Wow..what a rude, cold way to PRETEND to act”. Emphasize the PRETEND.

A couple months ago, I was at Whole Foods and approached a woman with one of my tried-and-true pick-up lines – one that has worked for me hundreds of times.

Her response (with dirty look and loud disgusted sigh): “What the F@@k do YOU want?”

Me: “You know, I know what your boyfriend looks like.”

Her: “Really now? What DOES my boyfriend look like, since you know it ALL?”

Me: “I see his face in the mirror every morning when I shave.”

Her (really angry and almost shouting, not getting it): “Are you in my bathroom, m^#$*rf@@ker? What the…. F@@K?!?!?!?”

Me: (points to her, laughs hysterically, and then in mock drawl) “Well then…. looks like…. ‘Exit, Stage Left!’ for me!” (walks away, not concerned that she might be giving me the finger behind my back)

Again: when you don’t take crappy behaviour from women (and people in general, for that matter) personally, it doesn’t happen as much. But it still happens. When you approach women with integrity and good intentions… the spiteful behavior of a few meanies won’t trip your game.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of Speed Seduction® 3.0, you’ll be in charge as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

You’ll learn great tools and tactics to use in the initial walk up to guarantee you’ll never have to worry about what to say and that you are firing up her fantasies within minutes. Now, that sure beats a poke in the eye!

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