Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

All human beings experience a fair amount of self-doubt from time to time.  Especially when it comes to approaching women.

Ever found yourself ten feet away from a chick who was the best looking babe you’d seen all year (or at least all week), there all by herself in the cafe reading a book, looking like she’d probably like it (or at least wouldn’t slap you silly) if you went up to her right now. 

But you don’t do it.

Instead, you have this endless, pointless conversation in your head and find any excuse to avoid putting yourself out there.

Eventually she pays the check, closes the book, and walks out. 

Whew – at least you didn’t get rejected. By her at least.  You just want to…

…Tell Your Doubting Voice To “Shut Up Already”
So You Can Get Some Action

Here’s the difference between a Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training (MIT) vs. the Average Frustrated Chump (AFCs): the MIT has learned to recognize when the “doubt delay dialogue” is happening (or about to happen), and stops those feelings dead in their tracks.

How do YOU Get this?

You see, developing a “monitoring” state or awareness that checks in and recognizes when you are beginning to have less than useful responses; THIS awareness is a great gift. It’s quite magickal.

You see, NO ONE is in a good state ALL the time. That’s not what we want to aim at.

What we DO want to aim at is knowing our own unique patterns of thinking, feeling, acting and being able to recognize quickly when we are going in a less than useful way; interrupt it effectively, and get back on track.

This skill isn’t very sexy; it’s not like being able to levitate, turn invisible or walk through a wall. But it is very, VERY powerful.

I’ll tell you what IS sexy: the results.  It’s sexy when she puts that book aside and turns to you, and you use the vibe as a down payment for an all-expenses-paid-for-two journey on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Quieting the rancor of self-doubt is based on a belief: that your feelings and thoughts and responses CAN be put in your awareness and CAN be brought under a good measure of direction and control. And it’s based on a value that doing so is VALUABLE, even necessary.  Click here to learn what gets you this awareness and control…

Dear Speed Seduction Master-In-Training,

Ever found yourself in a situation where you SWEAR you did everything right with a woman, yet for some reason it seems like the magic “wasn’t there?”

If you haven’t found yourself there at least once, then you’re like the salesman who has never been rejected… meaning you’ve never REALLY put yourself out there… also meaning what you THINK is the biggest score of your life to-date is nothing more than a sample taste of what CAN and WILL be once you do…

Check out this note from a student of mine:

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I just got back from an evening out with a very attractive woman and I’m frustrated. I thought I did everything right – capturing her imagination, using patterns, fractionating, redirecting her vibe, etc. At several points when she seemed “in trance” I leaned in to her and she responded by smiling and leaning in to me.

At the end of the evening I walked her back to her car, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. We agreed to meet again. All well and good? If things are going so well, why do I feel like I managed to capture her imagination but didn’t lead it very well?

It seems to be a bit of a pattern with me. I meet women, get into great conversations with them, steer them towards me, but I don’t seem to be able lead them to places which let them feel interested or comfortable enough to want to go any further.

Like I’m so close, yet can’t cross the finish line?

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OK: Stop right here.  This is SOOO obvious. 

You have a little “block” on getting physical.  You said you leaned in several times and she smiled and leaned back.  So what’s the problem?  You didn’t have to “lead” her anywhere.  She already HAD her ticket to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and was waiting for you to take her to lift-off!

Here’s the problem: something in your head is waiting for verbal permission to kiss her!

What is this hug on the cheek bullshit?  Dude, she was probably ready to at least blow you on the spot!

I suggest you change your beliefs about getting physical… and change it NOW!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If you’ve ever encountered problems “closing the deal” on your Sarge, I’ve got the accelerator that gets you across the Finish line so you can enjoy the women you really want.

Click here to see what it’s all about!

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.

There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.

There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.

And, then, there is the deeper magic.

The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.

Truly freeing them.

As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.

That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.

Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:

Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.

So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.

She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.

By itself, that is sexy.

Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.

“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”

So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.

You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.

There is no-thing for them to resist.

These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.

And the two elements don’t add up.

They MULTIPLY.

So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.

It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.

Now, add to that:

Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.

Language skills.

The energetic touch secrets.

I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.

None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.

And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.

You can have it now, in a heatbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.

Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what: YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.

You just have to be quiet enough to remember.

And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.

No matter what is holding you back, now is the time to break free of the chains, get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.

Click here to learn more…

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Recently on my blog I’ve shared clips from a recent 3-day live seminar, where I demonstrated Sarging techniques with the help of the lovely Dorota.

Today, I show you (in detail) how language builds a woman’s desire to be seduced.  Click below to watch now, then leave a comment sharing your reactions:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Now, ready to put an end (forever) to letting sexy, beautiful women pass right in front of you while you sit there virtually paralyzed not knowing exactly what to do or say to meet them?  Click here to get started today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

So many of you have asked me for demonstrations of how specific principles of Sarging work.

In this video (just 4:14), I show you how I use what’s known as the “I – You Shift” to plant commands and suggestions.

Click here to watch, then leave a comment to tell me what you think:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If you liked this technique, imagine what life can be like when you have my teachings in your corner and on your side.  Click here to learn how my girl-getting system gets you the girl-getting power you want.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A few weeks ago I was at one of my local hangouts in LA, working on some e-mails on the WiFi while checking out the bevy of bodacious babes that were swarming the place….and Sarging on a few of them.

My concentration got interrupted by a scene caused by a very desperate looking fellow.

See, this is the type of place where, after you finish your food order, you take the tray up and dump your garbage in the trash receptacle and then leave your tray.

Apparently, he had gotten some hot chick’s number and had accidentally left it on his tray when he tossed it. He left the restaurant, then realized his mistake, and came back hoping to get the phone number back. He was pleading with the manager for help. Coincidentally, the restaurant staff had just emptied that particular receptacle and taken its trash out to the dumpster in the back.

So he said to the manager: “No problem, I’ll just go into the dumpster and dig it out. No problem. It’s the one on top right?”

Manager’s flat-out, no-bullshit, no-messing-around response: “No, you won’t.”

Cut to the chase: guy who thought he was about to score with some babe, walks out dejected, knowing he “blew it.“

Yeah, I’d say he blew it.

He blew it from the moment he set “scoring the digits” as his goal. If this chick was so hot (and hot for him), what stopped him from scheduling a follow up meeting with her, then and there? What stopped him from making his move, then and there? Why did he take what was happening RIGHT THEN and willfully postpone it until an undefined “later” that might (and now DEFINITELY will) never come?

Too many smart guys are programmed into following “dating rituals.” Wait to get her number…wait two days to call her…then wait two days to see her…wait till the end of the date to give her a kiss…then wait till the next day to call her to say it was great…and then wait a day before calling back to ask for the next “date.”

Look: “wait” on THIS.

It’s true, the women ARE waiting. For you. So, champ, what are YOU waiting FOR?

If she’s here, now... and she seems interested, now… make your move, NOW. If she says no, fine, move on. But when she says yes (and she’s more likely to say yes because the vibe in the air that has her intrigued RIGHT NOW will dissipate if you go away and try to come back later), the results will sure beat a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Ready to stop wasting your time (and money) on “dating rituals” hoping to the heavens that women will like and sleep with you? Had enough of the “waiting game?” I’ve got the foolproof system that cuts through all that bullshit and gets you more women, now. Click here to see what it’s all about!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In my opinion, most of the “PUA”(Pick Up Artist) companies and instructors are running around trying to be copies of counterfeits of imitations of rip-offs of knock-offs of shams.

Contrary to my usual policy, I agreed to be a guest speaker at one of the “Pickup Conferences” that was held recently in a major city.

Why did I do this?

Well, I wanted, quite frankly, to let the deluded and deceived students see what real teaching looks like.

Anyway, when I checked out the publicity for this dubious event, I saw that almost all of the guest speakers all dressed like the “douche” in this video.(With the exception of the two female speakers, neither one of whom had the intelligence to pour piss out of a boot).

So the next time you see a “Guru” who goes out of his way to dress like this, it is a good sign he is likely an unoriginal “douche”.

Enjoy:

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