Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Any sequence of mental thinking that you go through, starts with a flow of energy in the body that kickstarts the thought process.  That’s the Signal Recognition Process.

Click here to learn more:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This video clip is taken right out of our Fear Into Charisma module, which is one of the three laser-focused, nuts-and-bolts contained inside the Speed Seduction® Power Pack.  Get your copy today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Just the other day a student of mine shared an observation with me.

The moment a woman starts with “When are you going to take me out on a date?” or “I want you to wine and dine me” he immediately, instantaneously, inexorably, and irrevocably loses interest in her.

From what he tells me, it’s not because he has taken me up on my 60-day challenge or refuses to be in thrall of the romance racketeers.  Even though he does, indeed, embrace the former and reject the latter as smart men do.

As he puts it:

“There are no logistics hero action figures in the toy aisle!  Many action hero figures, though.”  

A “date” requires logistics.  Wining and dining is nothing but logistics: reservations at the restaurant, buying the wine, selecting the best after-dinner spot to enjoy the wine, transportation to/from.  And much more.

Another student told me about a street pickup he did last week that went nowhere.  She told him she is unsure of her schedule because she looks after kids, doesn’t know when she gets off work, but here’s my number, give me a call, we’ll work something out.  He’s losing faith as these phone numbers are not leading to “dates.”

Let’s review the latter case.  First I asked him:

How long did you talk with her? What states did you generate/evoke with her? How did you link these to you and to taking further action with you?

Now I’ll say it again: this isn’t about getting the behaviors you want from women: phone numbers and dates. It’s about evoking in them the emotional states and processes (fantasy, fascination, connection) that you want linked to you.

THEN the things like phone numbers and dates become logistical details.

See the difference?

If you aren’t thinking in these terms, you aren’t doing Speed Seduction®.  All that wining and dining isn’t leading to a whole lot of 69-ing, is it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Speed Seduction® 3.0 is your roadmap that zooms you from “zero to action hero” in your ways with the women.    No more will we negotiate with her i(Don’t-Actually-Answer-My)Phone to become lucky enough to buy her dinner.  Onward!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I recently received this e-mail from a student of mine about how Speed Seduction® helped him “up” his game with women this past New Years’.  No resolution, just motor-vation to success.

Let’s hear him share, in his own words:

Ross, I owe you a huge thank you for all of your free materials. I have never had any consistent luck with women and now it is fantastic. I have been following all of your rules and beliefs when approaching women and they have worked every time. I often find myself grounding a lot more often and this really seems to keep my focus and balance in check.

My New Years Eve started off great. I was at my third and final stop of the night when I say a gorgeous waitress across the room. I got her attention by snickering at her.  Your rule saved me from the start. “When in doubt take a bold step forward.” So I did. She asked me “What are you snickering at me for?” I replied “Because, I think you’re really cute.”  She said the same about me and then promptly said “Don’t go anywhere.” and she returned with her number.  Since the next day we were texting then in the bed room…..

If it was not for your free segment on “shutting down last minute hesitation” I would have been done. She said that “I just met you and we shouldn’t be doing this.” I then stopped to a breath and gently whisper to her “I understand and see your point. I too only want to do things that we are both truly comfortable with.” and bang it was on since then. She has been texting me nonstop and wanting to hangout. The other cool part of the story is we don’t even have much in common, I just seem to keep the patterns that I know working.

THIS IS A TRUE TESTIMONIAL TO ROSS’S TEACHING: She just graduated from a Major big name college with a psychology degree and can read me like a book. But Ross’s patterns slip right through all of her constant analyzing and work every time!!!!!!! This is great! Man I only wish I could view the entire new course, if one video made my new year perfect.

Ross, a true thanks from a grateful fan.

Al Levy
Council Bluffs, Iowa

RJ here again.  Did you catch that last part?

For those of you who still (misguidedly) think that top-notch, intelligent, sophisticated, intellectual women will not get wet, will not be irresistibly aroused, will not want to push forward in a new direction – that’s just not the case.  In Al’s case, the woman is specifically trained to pick up on patterns, persuasion techniques, etc.

The women are waiting.  What in Suzanne’s silk nightie are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The good news is – you can have my brand new course.  It’s called “Sexual Aggression Mastery” and it’s chock full of mindsets, skills, and techniques to get you through when resistance (either hers or yours) appears at the “moment of truth.”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The same energy that drives negative thoughts and feelings can be redirected to motor-vate you toward success with the women you truly desire:

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. This video clip is ripped right out of Nail Your Inner Game – the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck.  Best news is, anyone can use it.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

We’ve been hearing since childhood about how some guys just have a “way with women.”

For some reason, they’ve just “got it.”  Seems like they can get any girl they want.  They’re always in the company of beautiful women.

Here’s a note from a student that drives this point home:

> I had a friend who was a real natural.
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> He said he would simply put his hand on her hip, and talk to her, while moving her hip about.

No… No… NO.

Look beneath the obvious and see what is really going on.

What is this guy doing with his intent, his will and his energy/vibe?

Get that down FIRST and then look at the pieces of behavior: where he puts his hand and where he moves her body.

How can you get a sinfully succulent co-ed steaming hot for you… so hot she’s turning beet red (in the moment, then all the next day at work)?

Without putting your hand on her hip or dancing with her.  Or even touching her.

I keep pointing at the moon.
You CONTINUE to stare at my finger.

Listen: it’s an axiom in science that if you look beneath the obvious things that people take for granted you will find out things everyone else is missing.

Does time flow uniformly, at the same rate, for all frames of reference? So it appears but in fact, it does not. Einstein looked behind and beneath the “obvious” truth to discover what is really going on.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. “Building Skill At Feel” is a pathway to true masculine power with women.  This is among the many things you learn in Showing Up Attractive, the companion course to Sexual Aggression Mastery.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

As you know, I am always interested in how the mind works and how to read/persuade our fellow humans.

In that regard, I want to recommend two fantastic books.  You can get them on Amazon, of course.

1. How We Decide by Jonah Lehrer  http://www.amazon.com/How-We-Decide-Jonah-Lehrer/dp/0618620117

This is an unbelievably important book for understanding the role of emotions in making good decisions and avoiding bad ones.  I’m only three chapters in and it is already blowing my mind. GET IT!

2. Louder Than Words by Joe Navarro http://www.amazon.com/Louder-Than-Words-Exceptional-Intelligence/dp/0061771392  Navarro puts every previous book I’ve read on reading people and “body language” to shame. A former FBI agent, he brings decades of law enforcement training to the table. An amazing, practical, no-BS, no padding book. GET IT!

If you’ve followed this blog for a good length of time, you know I very rarely recommend books. These two books deserve it.

RJ

P.S. I have no connection with these authors, have never met nor spoken with them and have no financial stake in these recommendations. I just think you will benefit from these books.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I believe that a combination of orientations, practices and insights are a big part of making mastering seduction mean a lot more than getting good with chicks. I believe it makes it about a radical act of personal rebellion against your own patterns and a beautiful and ongoing practice of personal design and choice, to become the man you’ve always wanted to be.

In this video, I talk about what it really means to be dominant with women. And remember, being able to be as comfortable being dominant and aggressive as you are devoted and adoring is a key to being wildly attractive with women…

Before You Even Open Your Mouth And Before You Even Master The Speed Seduction® Language Skills

Here’s that clip. Tell me what you think:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This is just a sample of what you’ll learn in my course on “Showing Up Attractive,” the companion course to “Sexual Aggression Mastery.”

P.P.S. For three complete days of Speed Seduction® immersion training, claim your seat at a live 3-day seminar.  When you sign up, you get immediate access to a “prep course” AND follow-up webinars after the seminar to make sure you’re doing it right.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s one thing to have a woman in your arms on the dance floor.  It’s another thing when it’s a sexytime dance with some movin’ and groovin’ especially if that leads to doin’.

It’s yet another thing entirely to get that delicious dancer OFF the dance floor and onto the next chapter in your adventure together.

Check this out, excerpted from a Sarge report from one of my students:

> …Then I told her that I saw her out one the dance floor, that it looked like she was having a lot of fun out there. She said yes she was, so I told her to give me a couple of minutes and I would meet her out on the dance floor. She smiled and said ok.

> I continued with my conversation with my friends, then went to her with a smile on my face. After dancing for a few minutes I told her that I love dancing. She said she did too. I told her that dancing is fun, and when you are with someone (sp) that you want to keep dancing with even after the music stops.. its even better.

> She looked at me with a puzzled look and asked what I meant by that. I told her the music was too loud to have an exciting conversation like that, but she could meet me outside and I would tell her.

RJ here.  Let’s dissect this. 

First of all, he did fantastic by telling her to “give him a couple minutes” before he joined her on the dance floor.  He didn’t chase her but showed he had something else going on.  Good balance.

Next, let’s look at how he handled the conversation on the dance floor and how it got her doing most of the seduction work:

1. When he said “dancing is fun”, he didn’t specify HOW.  He left it vague. That allowed her to search her own imagination to find what “fun” meant for her.
2. He was vague as to who “someone” means.
3. Suggestion: “you want to keep dancing after the music stops”.
4. Dancing in what way? How is it better? Again, by being vague, he created response potential. She’s curious about what you mean and she searches for her own meaning.

Finally, note how he segued into getting that delicious dancer off the dance floor. Both in terms of moving her to a quieter environment so he could use his voice to better effect, but also moving her to another location creates a sense of having spent more time with her.  Classic move.

That’s how it’s done.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Especially in the dance club, waiting for signs she’s interested could be fatal to your Sarge.  My brand new Sexual Aggression Mastery course cuts through all that and shows you how to close the deal with mastery.

GET YOUR COPY TODAY

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

F@@k it to hell and back again, one more time.

I am so excited about the brand-new “Sexual Aggression Mastery” course that I am making available, for a limited time, an instant replay of the launch broadcast which gives you a great preview, plus answers top questions from our students.

Everyone who is on the “Insider” Launch List will have access to this replay.

Get it now. Because it gets torn down on… Tuesday, January 3 at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

Just visit this page to sign up and get instant access:

http://www.rjforwardattraction.com/launch/see-rj-live/

Peace, piece, and “see you” there,

RJ

P.S.  The special 50% off launch price for this new course also ends tomorrow (January 3) at 12:00 Noon Pacific.  To get your instant discount code, you must register.  Again, click here:

http://www.rjforwardattraction.com/launch/see-rj-live/

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

F@@k it to hell and back again, once more.

So many of you have been demanding more specific teaching on the concept of pick-up as an act of profound personal rebellion, I am scheduling a live video event on New Years Day (Sunday, January 1) at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

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To cut to the chase and sign up now, click here:
http://www.rjspecial.com/

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Here is the scoop…

To “sweeten the pot” I am throwing in another opportunity that will be available ONLY to those who register for this live broadcast – and no one else.

Everyone who registers for this live video broadcast receives it – you’ll find it explained in an e-mail you get once you sign up.

Get ready. Because it all goes down on… Sunday, January 1 at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

Just click here and then enter your name and e-mail in the form on the right hand side to lock in your spot on the live broadcast:

http://www.rjspecial.com/

Peace, piece, and see you there,

RJ