Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I want to talk about a subject that is a bit more broad – that is, how does a person choose to move up the success-with-women learning curve?

When you have lots of new elements (patterns, techniques, etc) to focus on learning, which are the ones that, for you, in your unique situation with any particular woman or women, and given what you have experienced and mastered UP TO NOW, will really make the difference for you?

Changes CAN take place and DO take place on multiple levels.

Now, technically, when you use Speed Seduction® tools and you start enjoying success with women unlike anything you’ve managed up until now, you know you’re spot on. Well done. You’ve obviously put good work into mastering these tools and skill sets.

Now, I encourage you to use them with EVERYONE, everywhere you go, so you really OWN them, so they become part of your IDENTITY, rather than a context specific skill set that you turn on and off when you see some chick who is “hot”.

Of course, you don’t sexually ramp up the guy who takes your order at Fatburger (duh!), but you can ALWAYS practice getting rapport, calibration, tuning into your intuition, practicing shifting your intent and state, practice shifting other people’s states, etc.

So, the question is, if you have good technical proficiency, what is the ENERGY you want to wrap the skills around? What is the energy going to convey about the PERSON who is allowing the skills to be made manifest?

Is it a person who is sexy, challenging, knows how to tease, pull back, ready go take her behind the bushes and give her the f@@king of her life, etc? What are the energies at play behind the skills?

What if you could look at the skills through a filter that doesn’t say, “I wonder if this really works” or “I’ve GOT to make this work” but instead a filter that says, “Of course this is going to work… now who do I wish to ENJOY being as I allow the skills to flow forth?”

Looking back at the “Worth” you were feeling during your latest Sarge, do all the feelings/energies you had please YOU?

Points to ponder.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored, I shared with you a number of ways you can hook a woman’s interest within the first 5 minutes of meeting her.

So now let’s explore how you can hook her interest at the “closing.”

Where can you really grab that thread of attention is to pull her out of herself and really get her invested in the discussion with you. Sometimes what hooks her in is the closing.

I’ve hooked women in by saying, “I know we haven’t talked much.” Demonstrate you understand what’s going on. Say, “I know we haven’t talked much. Obviously, you have to get going and so do I. If you’re not with someone who’s with you in the way you truly want them to be, maybe we owe it to each other to talk.”

Often, it’s what was so powerful – and such a good place for where they’re at. It’s a taste for the fact of where they are with you. You don’t have a lot of time and have to go. That shows understanding.

Then to say, “If you’re not with someone who’s with you in the way that you truly want them to be,” often they’ll go home and say, “I really am not with the person I truly wanted to be. How did he know that?”

They’ll attribute it to you knowing, even though you didn’t say they’re not with the person they truly wanted to be with. They’re going to think, “How did he know?”

That, in and of itself, sure beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

This is the first of two mini-lessons on hooking her interest that I’ll be sharing.  The second will arrive in a couple days.  (I know, I know, I’m a tease.)

What are some of the key, initial factors that come into play when approaching women that can enable you to hook or get attention initially?

It begins with a very important concept.  The first five minutes are designed to get her invested in the transaction. Yes, you can create connections, get her sexually turned on, etc. Remember, in the first five minutes, if you get her invested and really interested in talking to you more, you’ve gotten the job done for that portion.

Here’s what can hook attention: She might hook into the vibe you present as your approach.

Let me break that down for you.

First of all, she may hook in psychically. She may be really sensitive to NLP.

She could hook into the theme that you introduce. She may just like the theme that you introduce.

She may hook into the format you use. For example, she may really like jokes, games, quizzes and curiosity.

She may hook in to the vibe, theme, format or analog.

She may really love your voice. Many women initially tell me they just love how masculine my voice was.

She may hook in to the fact that you don’t care that she’s not hooking in. If she’s not hooking and you don’t care and are fine with it, that may really get her attention.

As part of that, she may hook into how comfortable you are with her first response. Let’s say she’s a little bit nasty or skeptical and you just laugh and are not in any way troubled by it. That may really hook her attention.

Any kind of pattern interruption or response on your part that’s positive and unexpected can really hook her in.

She may finally only hook in to your touch. You may have to touch her in order to start getting her hooked in.

She may hook in to your fun learning frame. You’re there to learn and have fun.

She may hook into the fact that you’re screening her or the implied compliment.  She may hook in to the implied, playful screening and the fact that you’re screening her in a playful way.

The trick is to have fun, steady your ground, and get stable in your feet with a nice flow of energy in your body no matter what happens and plays out. Those initial 5 (to 10) minutes are about sparring in a friendly way and seeing where she’s open.

In Part 2 of this lesson, we’ll explore how to hook her interest with your closing.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  One of the things that I talked about in my recent London seminar is the path of sexualized curiosity as a way of being very powerful to hook women’s interest and seduce intelligent women.  To watch this (and 50+ more hours more of my latest and greatest) in the privacy of your own home, click here now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

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Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m often asked about the best manner or vibe for a man to put out when he approaches a woman for the first time.

Though the specific questions vary, a few common themes emerge.  Are cocky and funny good attitudes to exude toward women when you’re Sarging? Or, will a friendly and warm approach work better?  Can you mix the two?

Well, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: postulating that ONE approach ALWAYS works is just silly.

Being cocky and funny the whole time is like trying to drive your car around in one gear. You have to be able to shift gears as the conditions warrant, or you’ll strip your gears.  When that happens, you won’t be able to move forward.

So with that being said, why just have one approach?

A good approach toward women can start from any one of four basic positions, and move rapidly in between, back and forth, amongst the others.

You can start from ANY of these:

1. The put on: saying something funny, designed to make her laugh
2. Comment, question, observation
3. The blurt-out, where you just say whatever is crossing your mind or whatever you are experiencing seeing her in that moment
4. Genuine intuition

The best approaches combine 2 of these or start with one and move rapidly to the other.

As for being “cocky and funny”; many guys are quite capable of it, but you need to know when to drop it and rapidly display other aspects of yourself, unless you want to come off as a joke machine or an insult comic.

It’s one thing to approach life with a smile. It’s another to approach people with a sneer. Sneering shows some serious insecurities, doesn’t it?

The larger point is this: calibrate to the person(s) in front of you and notice what response(s) you get.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

On a recent “Ask Me Anything” calls for members of the Speed Seduction® Coaching Program, one of our students shared a story about how just a few simple words moved a woman from “I’m Aroused” to “It’s On”.

It went something like this.  The student had been spending time with her and had used Speed Seduction® to get her to the point where she went around naked in the room when they were hanging out, but nothing else had happened – no kiss, no nookie, no ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

He called a friend on the phone, and the friend gave him this advice: “Tell her to take her clothes off, get on top of you, and shut her f@@king mouth.” So my student said to the woman, “My friend tells you to take your clothes off, get on top of me, and f@@k me right now.”

Seems all of the work he had done building connections got her turned on, but when he just gave her a command… within 30 seconds, they were f@@king.

Now, let me make something clear: If you’re doing all the patterns, you’re in the driver’s seat and she’s sitting there passively listening, you can’t expect her to suddenly take the wheel.  The deeper in they go, the more you have to be the one who strongly takes the action.  On the flip side, women who are knowingly teasing you really need to be told to fuck off. They need that strong hand.

Here‟s the way I’ll paint it for you. What this student was doing up until then DID get her turned on.  She was responding and walking around naked, right?

First of all, get this understanding. Any girl who is walking around naked in front of you but won’t make out with you is teasing. She wants you to tell her to fuck off and do as she’s told. Do you understand that?

Now get this.  I’m going to get criticized by people who deliberately misquote me. So let me be clear.

I am NOT saying that all women want you to rip their clothes off and tell them, “Get on top of me, shut your mouth and f@@k.” I AM saying that if a woman is walking around naked in front of you and has taken her clothes off, she knows she’s teasing you and turning you on.

If she’s teasing you by taking her clothes off and parading around naked but won’t make out with you, you have the bull by the horns. You can either tell her to get the f@@k out or climb on top of you. That is clearly a case of teasing. She needs to know that you’re strong enough to say, “Get lost!”

Listen to this also: I’m sure this kind of woman is turned on. She’s turned on by the fact that you’re turned on by her teasing, but she’s also turned on by the patterns.

Just because she’s turned on doesn’t mean “it’s on” now. She can be extremely aroused, but what pushes her from very aroused to “It’s On” is a display of strength and not caring on your part. That’s for this specific kind of woman.

Now, let me unpack that and make it very clear.

For some women, doing language patterns and then touching and kissing them is enough to get them from, “I’m aroused,” to “It’s on.” You need to understand that just because a woman is aroused doesn’t mean it’s on and she’s ready.

For some women, doing patterns and being mildly aggressive is enough. It’ll move them from aroused to, “It’s on.”

For other women, they won’t be moved to, “It’s on,” even if they are aroused, unless you show that display of, “Fuck you! I don’t care. Please me.” That’s a subset of women.

I’m willing to bet, in this case, this woman is either very young, has very low “self-esteem” or both, if she’s in that category. She’s excited by displays of dominance and power. I want to make it very clear. The patterns were turning her on, but it wasn’t enough because of her psychology.

Make sense?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Mastering the skills for approaching and seducing the women you truly desire can be achieved with the right tools and knowledge on your side and in your corner.

But with all the BS social programming going on via the dreck spewed out by the “romance industry,” small wonder many smart men who otherwise have the whole world by the balls, are going through life doubled over in constant, searing, skewering emotional (and even physical) pain from chronic blue balls.

There’s a different bullshit idea for every day of the week and it can be downright confusing.

It’s possible you’ve studied PUAs who tell you to go to the club wearing a top hat, make-up, and 5 inch heels and acting like a clown to meet women.

Maybe you’ve bought into “just be yourself and be a friend” B.S.

Could be you’re screwing around randomly typing “37/m/downtown looking for a nice lady for naughty times” in chat rooms, dangling bait from your rod hoping an actual woman nibbles on your worm.

And as a result, the very notion of getting laid, meeting lots of hot women, or finding your life partner (whatever your goal is) seems like a heavy solid oak door, dead-bolted shut, and through the steel-barred window, on the other side you see your success vision sneering, laughing, and pointing while jingling the keys.

If only you could unlock that door.

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Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In just a few short weeks I’ll be teaching my last live Speed Seduction® seminar for 2011. From Sept 9-11, we’ll be in lovely Montreal, Canada, amidst a sea of lovely French Canadian ladies, teaching you my latest and greatest girl-getting breakthroughs.

My Last Event…YOUR First Look

Listen: while it’s true that this is my last seminar for 2011, it is your first chance to see my newest teachings on “Showing Up Attractive – Secrets of Stealth Attraction” and “Sexual Aggression Mastery – The Effectively Sexually Forward Male.”

These teachings will form the basis of the two structured, online courses I’ll be offering toward the end of September/early October. But you can start learning and applying the powerful lessons on September 9-11.

Find out more here: http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Act Before Monday And Save $200

Also, a quick reminder that the registration fees will be going up soon. After Monday (August 22) at 11:59 PM Pacific, they will increase by $200 for each level. All the more reason why you want to claim your seat – and your results with women – now.

Here’s that link again: http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

“Linkage” is using gestures to make sure that the great states we create in women through the Sarging process are linked to us.

Watch this video where I expound in greater detail:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

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Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

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