Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here is a screen shot of a testimonial I just got:

Just in case it isn’t clear enough I am also copying the text for you right here…

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Hey, the name’s Melvin Cedeno. And I’ve been studying seduction for a few years, and I’ve read practically every other book in the community and all that. I can honestly say your Unstoppable Confidence course did more for me than everything else combined. I’m from Manchester, New Hampshire in the united states, and it’s a tiny city. I wasn’t 21 so going to bars to meet women didn’t work but we did have some of the top party colleges in the country so we went to those instead.

You helped get my mentality to the practical place it needed to be every night I went out. You became a part of my rituals, my Anthony Robbins for the ladies, and just helped me feel ok with being the best possible choice any woman could make.

I’m currently with my dream girl and before her I slept with 9 woman thanks to your advice. And you haven’t just helped me, I pass on your wisdom to my close friends and I can tell you if you combine all our scores it would tally up to well over 40. I hope this wasn’t too long, I could go on forever.

Thanks again Ross, you truly changed a life here for the better.

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Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you want to enjoy the same results as Melvin, I suggest you jump over here right now and check out the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection because the Unstoppable Confidence Course he mentions is included as a free bonus with it!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In an ideal world (assuming there’s some fantasy-island “one definition” of “ideal” that fits every person and every situation), when Sarging a woman there would be no one else within earshot, no background noises, no distractions, no cell phones blaring, and nothing on her mind, at all, except overwhelming thoughts about how the most important thing to her in this world is the prospect of riding your baloney pony.

Wouldn’t it be nice?

Now how often does that happen?

Many students report challenges when meeting and conversing with women in public places, with other people around (and seeing and hearing what’s going on), when it comes to sealing the deal with her without putting her on the spot.

For example, one in particular asked a woman out in a public place and she said “Oh, but my calendar is so full.”  He suspects she really enjoys his attention, but she’s claiming a “full calendar” because she’s not keen on saying yes to him so publicly.

So first of all I ask…

What’s this “ask her out” stuff?

Tell her, “You know, I don’t have too much time, but why don’t we hang out for a while?”

DO NOT ASK WOMEN OUT ON “DATES”.

For all you know, she is very eager to f@@k, doesn’t WANT to go “out” with you, but is ready for lots of “in and out”.

When you focus on asking her “out” you are still(STILL!) thinking of sex as something that happens at the end of an evening or afternoon of “going somewhere” or “doing something”.

Guys, you must remove these chains from your mind. FREE YOUR MIND, AND *****HER***** ASS WILL FOLLOW!

I have a challenge/assignment for you. You won’t like it. You probably won’t do it. But here it is:

From now on… for the next 60 days… you will not get or accept a phone number, nor make a plan to later see/spend time with a woman until, unless and AFTER you and she have made out for at least 10 minutes.

THAT should re-orient your thinking nicely.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. And you know what else would help – having the ability to magically insert your desires into her head so that she begins to think its her idea to get with you!  These are ideas she can have, and act upon, no matter who’s eavesdropping.  Learn this and much, much more in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a clip from the 3.0 Course you’ll really like. Notice how I use a non-sequitur to get things going and then quickly move her into a fantasy scenario, with me inserted right into the fantasy WITH her:

Talk about accessing her imagination and erotic emotions in record time…and opening up the most useful levels of her mind.

This is part of the 3.0 philosophy of getting her involvement and investment right away, right out of the chute.

No working for it, throwing stuff against the wall or trying to squeeze out a response.

This accomplishes three objectives:

1. Makes it an active participation on her part, eliminating any buyer’s remorse, resistance, or friction, plus conditioning her unconsciously to actively participate from then on.

2. She does MOST of the work

3. She supplies you exactly the verbal and non-verbal responses that you channel into and incorporate into any memorized patterns or other methods you care to use.

Please give me your comments and feedback. I truly feel sorry for anyone who is competing against you for hot women if you know this stuff and THEY don’t. It really is unfair…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Oh yes, one more thing: this also allows you to screen for women who have the qualities I teach you to screen for in the Speed Seduction®3.0 Course.  Screening is one of the  3 “S’s” 3.0 emphasizes!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Is there something wrong with having sex with a woman, knowing or believing she just wants and enjoys sex for its own sake?

Some men believe that ultimately he has to “pay for it” one way or another – often in the form of “proving” he’s in it for more than “just sex”.  He tries to believe that it’s ok, that she wants and enjoys sex.  “If I don’t give it to her, someone else will.” 

But it just doesn’t work out that way for him.

Could there be some sort of guilt involved?

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: in order to have the belief that there’s something wrong with f@@king a woman for nothing, what has to be missing from your sensory experience?

What is your perception and experience of making love with a woman? Can you sense her pleasure as she is feeling it? Can you feel her arousal as it ebbs and flows in her? Can you feel her pussy twitching when you hold her afterwards, even when you are no longer inside her, it is still twitching and pulsing for you?

To me, this is NOT about beliefs. It’s about your direct experience of the exchange of pleasure, erotic energy and sensuality that is the heart of good sex, as opposed to mechanical pounding away and discharging your sexual energy (and dumping your load).

If you are only humping mechanically or have little or no sensitivity or sensuality then that is the REAL issue.

The only way you could possibly hold the belief that she isn’t enjoying it is if you are shut down to sensing her energy and yours and what is going on with that dance.

As far as guilt: are you sure? How do you KNOW it is guilt? Maybe it is just uncertainty mixed with a vague sense that sex can be a lot more for you as well as for her, whomever “her” might be.

Ok, maybe the belief that women don’t enjoy sex has shut you down to opening your senses and sensuality. So the solution is to open the sensuality and the senses.

Don’t look at it as “guilt complex” Look at it as an information-block and a shutting down of senses to experience that now has to be awakened.

If this is the case, the next time you are with a woman, TAKE YOUR TIME. Do NOT f@@k her no matter what. See how you can enjoy just the kissing, the touching, with no hurry at all. Make your aim to create a nice erotic haze that you can blissfully share for a morning, or evening or afternoon. Do NOT put it in until they say, “I want you inside me” or words to that effect.

This is as much about you discovering your own sensuality and openness to energy than anything else.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Understanding the real psychology of what gets women hot and bothered and ready to go will give you an advantage over almost every other guy out there.  The time is NOW, for you to pull back the curtains and claim your ultimate success with women with Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At various times here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored we’ve discussed (among other hot topics) sarging without a wingman, sarging when you’re solo and everyone else is in mixed groups, and sarging when some dude keeps cock-blocking you.

Now, let’s say you’re in a smaller, quieter place, more upscale.  The place is very small & everyone is within earshot.  Lots of 3- or 4-sets of ladies, mostly professionals unwinding after a day at the office.

This place is small but a great hunting ground; so you don’t want to risk kiboshing it by being viewed as ‘on the make’.   Some guys might view this as a problem.

I would first ask: how is that a problem?

It can only be a problem if you ASSUME(without evidence) that talking to women is something about which you should be embarrassed, ashamed, sneaky, etc.

Who put the idea in to your empty head that women don’t want guys to come up directly and talk to them?

You view yourself as “hunting” but you don’t want to be viewed as on the make!

No wonder you feel like you have to hide what you are doing.

How about you come up with a better f@@king metaphor than being a ‘hunter’ and women being your ‘prey’?

How would everything suddenly re-organize, shift and change… now…as you start feeling the shift from this advice?

Look guys: the metaphors you use to describe to yourself the actions you are going to take have profound effects from the cognitive layer all the way down to the neurological level of synapses, neurotransmitters, hormones, etc.

SO PICK A GODDAMN BETTER METAPHOR, KNUCKLEHEAD!

Here’s one for you: this place is a party, you are the host, there to make sure all feel happy and welcomed. And what a gift it is for them (not arrogantly so), that you give special attention to THEM.

Now, does that beat a poke in the eye?

Listen: the women (all 3 of them over there) are waiting.  What, in the name of Natasha’s nightgown, are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

How do you move closer to your destination?  Take a step toward it. 

How do you eat the giant elephant?  One bite at a time.

Claiming your results with women you truly desire is not much different.

If you’re just starting out, a “newbie” who has had a bit of success using the techniques but feeling a little intimidated because you haven’t yet effortlessly landed the terrific threesome with Debbie and her succulent sorority sister Sarah, think about what HAS happened for you.

You’ve made the decision that today is the last day of the way you used to be.

Perhaps you personally haven’t changed all that much, but the way you see things and the world in general HAS changed – for the WAY better.

With increased confidence that comes from seeing SOME success, you feel like the world is your oyster and you will grab it by the balls and squeeze until they crunch.  (Ha ha ha. I don’t think oysters HAVE balls, but I dig the picturesque metaphor in any event.)

What comes up many times for “newbies” who have gotten better at approaching and conversing with women: challenges mastering the Close, sealing the deal with women.

Hint: stop thinking about the “Close” as a separate stage, but as something that starts before you even walk out the door and continues with each further step of comfort, openness, challenge, excitement and desire you create in and with her and with the first initial friendly/warm touches/physical contact, which should be happening early on.

HINT HINT: If she isn’t comfortable or is frozen with that initial, friendly, non-sexual touching, RUN.

HINT HINT HINT: learn to screen women. What personality traits must be there in her for you to want to move forward? Can you mentally rehearse getting up from the table, smiling, shaking your head and saying, “No way” and just walking out the door, feeling 10 feet tall and humming out loud, “ANCHORS AWAY, MY BOYS! ANCHORS AWAAAAAY!”

Newbies: this is important, that last hint. Do it.

Start acting like you have choice and standards even if you currently don’t and your dick for the past ten years has been dry as nun’s pussy in the Sahara desert! It’s the most paradoxical, counter-intuitive mindset, but it W-O-R-K-S! Start believing, feeling, act-as-if you ALREADY have a world of choice.

And most of all, remember my rule: When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a great example of how to combine 3-4 different concepts, tools and techniques together at the same time, effortlessly multiplying the strength and effectiveness of each in a combined “seduction strike force”!

Watch how I bring anchors from a previous round of patterning back into play, and how I use fractionating to “test the safe door”.  And notice the three different methods I give to give the safe door a tug:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A student of mine reported a challenge he was facing.  When using various seduction patterns, he found the same thing kept happening.  He was getting the “B answer” result that might have kept conversation going – as opposed to the “A answer” which would have been a turbo-charged ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Let’s hear from him:

> Hi guys, today I’m stuck at home, and I was just going true my sarge journal. I noticed that most of the time I used the natural vs social pattern I ended up in a in intellectual discussion instead of becoming more of an authority in her world. Now that I think about it I’ve had the same problem with a pattern. I don’t know what it is called but it’s a combination of apposition of opposites and the fascination pattern. Do any of you guys have recognize something you might have done wrong in the past and that I can pay attention to. Or do you have any ideas how I can prevent these patterns from becoming an intellectual discussion and turn them into trance generators?

OK, RJ here again.

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: what attitude, energy and “vibe” about yourself is being communicated ACROSS and along with the “words”?

Are you communicating a crying need for approval? Are you hiding BEHIND the patterns, hoping against hope she won’t notice what a “geek” you are? What is the message about yourself that is being communicated along with the pattern language?

Listen: I’ve said it over and over and over and newbies don’t LISTEN AND GET IT NOW -

Think of the “patterns” as being more than the memorized “speeches”.

ANYTHING that opens her imagination and emotions is a “pattern” including your attitude, energy, what you notice and use in her responses, the questions you ask her, etc. etc. etc.

Now, think about this: if you wanted to send a 1,000 volt current, would you try to conduct it across a sheet of cardboard or a sheet of gold foil?

Equally good current, but the conductive medium matters.

Your attitude and energy and belief are the conductive medium across which the “voltage” of the pattern language will either go straight to her or simply go nowhere.

Second: have you ever really used your imagination and gotten some of the experience that you are describing in whatever “patterns” you are using? Do they reflect anything YOU have actually dreamed about, imagined, or experienced or are they merely empty words?

Third: Some women don’t get “abstract” concepts. Some have to have you address THEM directly: what excites them, what THEY enjoy what THEY do when they want to escape, get away, indulge themselves. Only AFTER that, can they at all open to more abstract discussions, like Natural vs. Culturally programmed woman.

How can you tell, in advance, if she’ll respond to more abstract patterns like Natural vs. Culturally programmed? Well, experience, in the field. But I would not start out with this pattern, especially with younger women. Save it for women in their late 20′s at least.

Start out with things that deal with HER world, and her direct experiences. If she responds well, build on that.

Make sure you also fractionate along the way; occasionally return to “fluff” talk. Challenge her to make sure she is adventurous enough and has a good enough imagination to explore these kinds of things.

Remember finally: THE pattern of ALL patterns is to watch her responses and utilize them! If she isn’t responding, back up, change themes, change what you are presenting, etc. etc. etc.

There is no “one” memorized pattern that works all the time for all women. Give up that fantasy. I have done “Incredible Connection” for years and some women melt into puddles in seconds, others NEVER GET IT.

So f@@king what? I haven’t just given you a single shot flintlock pistol. I’ve given you a 6,000 round per minute Phalanx II super-Gatling gun with unlimited ammo, to use a hostile metaphor.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’ve had my nose to the grindstone working on the “Showing Up Attractive” and “Sexual Aggression Mastery” courses that we’ll be releasing in just a few weeks.

So, I took a break and took a stroll down memory lane and started checking out old versions of my website on the Wayback Machine.

Here’s a page that was devoted to Sargeant J. Cat, aka “Sargy,” the legend behind it all:

http://www.seduction.com/blog/sargy/

Please note: most of the links on that page are either broken or go back to the Wayback Machine.   For the current Speed Seduction® website, click here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A great way to teach you how to succeed with women is to let you see how it works in real-time.  A student of mine asked me to critique a recent supermarket pickup he did.  Watch and learn:

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It’s your choice HOW you do it, when you make the decision that today is the day you move forward and claim your results with the women you really, truly want to be with.

Peace and piece,

RJ