Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Touch – and the way you use it – plays a critical role in being sexually forward:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Are you now getting, or have you ever gotten, pushback from a female interest that goes something like this:

“Wow, I want to get involved but I think you’re just going to leave me hurt”

or

“You’re something, but I don’t think I could live up to you.”

Is she intimidated by you?  Does she lack self-confidence?  Are we seeing past trauma in her life rearing its ugly head?  Perhaps a little self-doubt in her mind, “I don’t deserve this man”?

Could be any, or all of these.  Or something else.

Let me point out the piece that I think is missing: having HER reach for it, having HER confirm for herself in her OWN thinking and her OWN behavior that:

• She WANTS to reach for more.
• She MUST reach for more or she will lose you.
• If she DOES reach for more, she WILL get a great reward with you (you will NOT reject her if she DOES reach for more, but reward her instead).

There are many Speed Seduction® tools to help accomplish this, but one thing to emphasize above all is the attitude that you do not and WILL not overwhelm her; that at some point, SHE has to qualify herself “in”, and if she does not, you will walk away and not feel anything other than, “Ok, let’s draw someone better”.

[Hint: the tools would be ratification, meta-stating, measuring. Also screening, both actually screening for certain personality traits and giving the appearance of being screened.]

And of course, fractionation.

If you are always, always, ALWAYS moving forward then she literally CAN’T move toward you. Where are you energetically, physically, etc. pulling back a bit and seeing if she moves toward YOU?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

All things aside, are you, as the gentleman, still obligated to pay for the lady’s drink?

Let’s dig into this.

So you’re at a social with a cash bar (and you can run a tab).  You’re just having fun, being playful, chatting up different women.  Then, you focus in on one woman, and vice-versa.  You approach her.

She seems attractive and bright.  She’s been drinking a bit, not too much and not surprisingly since this is a social with a cash bar, but just enough for a slight buzz.

You say and do Sargy things and the seduction seem to be progressing nicely.  This night just might have an Act 2 – a torrid, steaming-hot sex scene.

At the end of the night, it’s time to pay the tab. You pay yours.  She starts complaining that her friend had invited her, implying that she doesn’t want to pay her own tab.  You assume she wants her friend to pay.  Remembering how “booze” is one of the 5 Bs that desperate supplicators resort to, you don’t volunteer to pay.  Eventually, her friend comes back to where you are and pays the tab.

Outside in the parking lot, she puts you to the fire for not offering to pay for her drinks. Maybe you should have expected this.  (Thank you VERY much, social programming and Romance Racketeers, for f@@king things up AGAIN for both you and her.)

Now, she seems like an attractive enough woman that most other guys would offer to pay for her drinks. Instinctively you sense this might be the turning point that determines whether you a) go home with her, b) go back out Sarging, c) call it a night.  So what do you do?

A student of mine, when faced with this exact scenario, told her, pleasantly but matter-of-factly, “I’m not going to buy your affections.” It became clear she wasn’t going to give him her number, much less a ride on the O-Train, so he did the ol “Exit, stage left.”

I think he did fine. I would have suggested he say, also, “Do you really need the external validation of a guy’s buying things for you, to be reminded of your own value and worth?” Then shake his head and walk off.

Onward!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In previous posts here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored, I’ve explained the importance of clearly positioning your values.

Sometimes, seeming “just a tad pissed” when she violates your rules can be an effective screening tool and a way of drawing her closer (esp. when she has to, you know, make it up to you).

Today I want to expound just bit on the following: when you are first getting to know a woman, or are even in the early stages of an ‘involvement’, how do you lay down rules/set boundaries for what is acceptable or unacceptable in her behavior?

It’s simple.

Tell her.

Tell her NON-BLAMINGLY.

What does that mean?

It means:

• NO name calling.
• NO angry tonality (in this post I emphasize “calmly but with a bit of pissed off going” – NOT fuming, seething, spewing, or shouting – BIG difference in case that’s not clear)
• Saying what you WANT.

Let’s say that you and her have gotten to know each other pretty good.  Her gym is around the corner from you and she’s starting a pattern of dropping by after her workout and expecting you to be available on a dime.

Again, you love having her around and you’re enjoying how things are going with her, but you can’t just drop everything, every single time.

You might say, “Listen…this is really important to me. If I don’t tell you, then it is my fault for being with-holding. But it’s like this: it’s important to me that the people around me respect my personal space. And what that means is that if you want to come by, please ask first. I love having you here, and I want you to be here alot, and (not BUT), I also need you to know that the space still belongs to me.”

That’s just one example.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You’ve heard me say that “online dating” is for the birds.  Speed Seduction® is NOT designed to help you get laid from a personals ad.

At the same time, you also hear me say often that one of the real geniuses of Speed Seduction® is that it doesn’t just give you a bunch of pickup lines; rather, it gives you the tools and the skill mastery to apply the teachings to YOUR situation with ANY woman.

Listen to this student tell you, in his own words, about his success making the “online thing” work for him:

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Hello Ross, I wanted to give your ideas of seduction the toughest challenge possible; bitter men-hating women on dating websites. As a result of using only information from your free products on your site and using only words on MSN, I have given women the most powerful orgasms of their lives.

I have had teenage women squirt and older women send me videos of them masturbating. I have had women fall in love with me simply using your ideas of language. I have had women send me pictures that would make your granny faint. [Well, maybe not YOUR granny!]  I tell them that they need to talk to just me for 20 minutes and the rest is history. Some have such powerful orgasms that they delete me and log of their sites because they’ve never come so hard and they freak.

One young woman ordered me to drive over to her house and sleep with her.

And all of this by using the theories you outline in your free products. I should also point out, that unlike many online PUAS suggest, my profile has a crappy little picture and hardly any information.

This, perhaps, is not how you intended Speed Seduction® to be used, but I am highlighting how your theories can be used and expanded.

No top hats, no vanishing coins and no pictures of me with tons of women, just words and ideas from your free products.  Thank you.

Lee Masters
Birmingham, West Midlands, UK

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RJ again.  First of all, good on Lee!  Lee, I am SO proud of you for claiming YOUR choice and achieving success with women you truly desire.

You’re not the first student who, despite what I teach, have met and had sex with women from the “dating sites.”  It’s all in HOW you apply the skills.

Again, take note of what Lee has said, in his own words, about how this has improved his life.

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Freud asked, “What do women want”?

I ask, “What do women respond to”?

Watch this and learn more:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s time to break out of the belief fostered by certain folks that in order to have fun or have sex with a woman, you must be open to a relationship or feel you “owe” her one.

It is time, my beloved students, friends, and fans, to shut the Romance Racketeers down.

Look: when you’re out there meeting new women, exploring new avenues, enjoying rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle without excuses, regrets, apologies, and other bullshit so-called “price to pay” for being an HONEST man, the Romance Racketeers lose.

When you and a woman mutually agree to have some fun without complicating things, that means you both get what you want without money and time wasted on fancy dinners, flowers and chocolates, romantic cruises for two, and that rot.  The Romance Racketeers do NOT like this because they’re not getting your money.

But you, as a smart guy who masters the skills, will focus instead on having fun, making out with, and yes, f@@king the women you really want to be with.  Meanwhile the Romance Racketeers can go f@@k themselves, as far as you, me, and all of your fellow Speed Seduction® masters are concerned.

Most of us come from a background of being told to be “a nice guy”. Told, even if what you really want is some awesome sex with a hottie, to still make it known that you want a relationship and even make an effort to try to “find” one.  You know the old saw about “stuff you say to get into her panties”… and the over-generalized connotations around the phrase “Mr. Love ‘Em And Leave ‘Em.”  

Well guess what?  Many women you THOUGHT you never had a chance in Hell with, actually WOULD have slept with you, in fact masturbated while thinking about you, but were afraid to get involved with you AT ALL because they weren’t ready for a relationship and took those hints-to-the-contrary you felt “obligated” to drop, at face value.

Another clue: women who are dating other guys or have busy schedules are probably not looking for a relationship either.  A woman who has a “career first” mindset is unlikely to settle into a relationship, in fact she might get turned OFF by the idea.  But chances are she’s not committed to waiting 5 years to get laid. Have you thought of it from HER point of view?

One last thing: how many women commisserate about wishing they could find “Mr. Right” yet seem to be having a lot of sleepovers with “Mr. Right Now?”  I got news for you pal: she’s not letting Mr. Right Now in her shorts because she doesn’t want him there, even if it IS true that he’s not her “Mr. Right” that she envisions having kids and growing old with.

In fact it just might be possible she’s denying she really likes f@@king him – even complaining about what a “jerk” this “Mr. Right Now” of hers is – because she’s been programmed by the Romance Racketeer Cinema to fear “society” will call her a whore for daring to claim her choice to be a discerning, smart woman who wants to be happy and satisfied like any human being.

You know, just like the Romance Racketeers would paint you a “rake” or a “sex obsessed jerk” (the “bad guy” in any sappy romance flick…you know…the guy who f@@ks the heroine over and over before she finally “lets” the “hero” of the story be seen buying her an expensive dinner in a public place on their way to the expensive show he bought the tickets for) for daring to admit that, yes, you like a woman because she’s good in bed and you like being in bed with her.

See, these Romance Racketeer assholes are making it difficult for the women-folk too.  And that’s bullshit that needs to STOP.

Now STAND UP, cast off their chains, go up to that woman you desire, and show her a BETTER choice.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently, someone asked me this question: if you acted like a total AFC toward a woman in the past (lots of flowers, expensive dinners, and “dating” prior to any making-out or sex) and predictably got rejected, before you acquired Speed Seduction® skills, can you go back, show her the new “Sargy” you, and win her over with the new you?

Usually, I’d ask… “Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

But for some guys, whether it’s (as far as he can tell) a sense of wanting to “go back and do right,” a nagging feeling of having failed and wanting a do-over, or whatever, he just can’t get this chick off of his mind.

Is there anything he can do to change her feeling for him?  Should he try to bring this one back to life, or should he just move on?

Here’s the thing: you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.

Actually, as I think about this, the problem is that you invested lots of feeling (not to mention money) in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.

Now listen, and listen up:

Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it.

It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.

In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.

No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.

I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, whacking off to your perverted little dribble dick fantasies (just kidding about the dribble dick), etc etc.

Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.

Remember this: “You never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve made love”.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A lot of you ask me questions about how to approach younger women and get them interested in you.

To begin with: if you are sufficiently intriguing, fascinating, fractionating, etc. she will almost NEVER bring it up if she is the adventurous, curious, sexually open kind of girl. (What kind of girl at any age would you want who does NOT have these qualities?)

Part of solving this younger woman thing is knowing the type of energies you need to have and communicate with and through. EQUALLY IMPORTANT is the proper selection of the right kind of girl.

BOTH have to be there and you have to be willing to pass on younger women who, although juicy to look at and desirable physically, JUST WON’T GET IT.

Sorry, but some younger women can NEVER bridge that age gap. You can learn to very quickly spot them, nod your head and move on.

Now all that being said: I again say that age is not an impossible barrier, but age DOES dictate a different INITIAL approach, at least for me.

I am far less likely to walk up to a 21 year old and tell her directly I find her attractive. I’m going to use a comment/observation/question combined with humor.

I WILL be direct with a younger gal, but not up front. That just scares crap out of them, in my experience.

Also, GENERALLY SPEAKING, younger girls require more leading and have less knowledge of what they like or want.

The larger issue is: what is it that YOU are offering to ALL women, regardless of age? What is that “something” in the way in which you communicate, use your energy, vibe, knowledge of her and her world to create an irresistible attraction layered inside a fleeting opportunity that she MUST reach for NOW or forever miss out?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you no longer need a guarantee before you take a bold step forward and approach a woman, “make your move”, or what have you, some amazing things can totally open up:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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