Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You don’t always have to say a lot to “close” a woman.  Sometimes you’re in a hurry and don’t have time for chit-chat but you are highly interested in the woman you’re speaking with now and need to move things forward quickly.

I know how much you guys love word-for-word patterns, so I know you will truly enjoy this video clip:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Not too long ago, a student shared a challenge with me.  He noticed he seemed to spend a lot of time inside his head.

Many of his AFC beliefs were still there, always showing their ugly head when things with the ladies weren’t working out like he wanted.

Example: if a girl flaked on him he’d find himself spending ages thinking about it, sulking, and getting annoyed.

The challenge: how to become more positive and have more helpful beliefs, to get some peace and quiet in his head so he could step up his girl-getting game.

A few things I called attention to:

The old patterns of thinking, feeling, etc WILL come up when you make changes. Not because it is who YOU are or that you are afraid of success or have some condition like “low self esteem”.

But rather, they come up because… well… they’ve come up so many times before and they now have momentum, more clearly, what I call cognitive momentum and emotional inertia.

They are not signs that you are failing or hopeless or are a “negative” person.

They ARE signs that you are headed right into the face of your challenges and they are coming up, or offering themselves up, if you like, to be released and refocused into resources.

How do we do this?

1. By languaging them correctly, in such a way that we notice them without gluing them back to ourselves and/or making them who we are.
2. By being mindful of the actual feeling sensations in the body without fighting or feeding them.
3. Then and only then, positive rehearsal of new ways of thinking, feeling, believing, acting, responding, etc.
4. Finally, consistently acting in new ways and doing the new behaviors, ways of speaking etc.

Do this and you will, sooner than later, begin to see some amazing transformations(trance-formations).

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Chew on this:

Some questions for aspiring seducers…

1) Where do you get the idea that you have to be totally certain of a perfect result before you can enjoy trying out behaviors that are totally new?

2) Where do you get the idea that women expect you to be totally confident and sure of yourself in order to feel attracted to you?

Is it possible that both of these ideas are delusions with no basis in fact? And that these twin delusions-more than any special social skills-are what have been standing in your way of enjoying some amazing fulfillment with some remarkable ladies?

Please share your thoughts below.

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you’re in a seduction situation with a woman, do you think you’ll achieve success focusing on the thoughts in your head?

I also share insights for getting grounded in your body:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Just got this great e-mail from a student of mine who has immersed himself in our Buddy To Bedmate course and, most recently, stepped up to the plate by claiming his copy of Nail Your Inner Game.

Now, he will tell us, in his own words, how these courses have turbo-charged his girl getting game:

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Hey Ross,

Thanks for free Buddy To Bedmate stuff….I’ve been absorbing as much of it as I can reading through all of the pdfs and files…and let me tell ya…this is fantastic stuff!  I’ve been trying out various strategies on some of the ones I know in the friend zone…and although we are not doing the “no-pants” dance…I am getting some very interesting responses.

The trance induction mp3 was very helpful to me.  I have listened to it 3 times…and plan to listen to it whenever I feel stuck and frustrated (I expect this when trying to connect with women…part of the learning process, eh? – no, I’m not Canadian : ) I sense a difference already in my attitude…and the crazy thought trains that used to run through my head like “the clock is ticking”  or “time is running out on me” or “this will never work” or “there are no women I can really talk to…connect with…”  …. well, you get the idea.

I appreciated especially your take on the “inner game”.  As you put it…the “double your masturbating” guy tried to talk on the inner game and had some useful stuff…but it was rather vague and undefined.  I read this year the Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallwey and also the Inner Game of Work by the same author.  At the time I read these….I thought “wouldn’t it be great if there was an Inner Game to Seduction book?”  When I signed up for your Buddy To Bedmate system….I was happy to discover you had really “nailed” this topic!

I bought your Inner Game DVD/CD pack recently…and just watched it last night.  Fantastic stuff!  I especially appreciate your concept of transmutation…I did it today after having a tough time at work…I was all knotted up inside and found the detanglement process very, very helpful.

Now to apply this knowledge in all the right places!  : )

I have found your stuff much more practical than the other PUAs out there.  You should write a book someday -  The Art and Science of Persuasion!

With appreciation,

Ethan H.
Dallas, TX

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RJ here.  Ethan – good on you for claiming your mastery of the skills that will get you more of the women you truly desire, more of the time, and keep you from getting hit with the “F-bombs” that the Romance Racketeers just love to lob at smart men everywhere.

By the way – I’ve written a couple of books – and I do have a course called MindFrame Persuasion. 

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Some months ago, I covered the importance of creating genuine curiosity within yourself as a key to turbo-charging your success with women.  Not just about women, but about EVERYTHING.

Curiosity serves a critical purpose.  What are all the different ways to learn more about a woman in such a way to learn how she processes, so I can use these processes to persuade her more effectively?

Here are some thoughts:

A key point about Speed Seduction® is to look for process rather than object or thing.  Meaning, look for ongoing activity rather than a “thing” or a “person” called a “girl”.

There is no such “thing’ as love, meaning love is not an object like a car or a truck. Our language tends to take ongoing experience, flow and process and turn it into a frozen, fixed, unchanging and unchangeable “entity” or “condition”.

Thus, “I HAVE depression” or “I AM depressed” as opposed to, “I am depressing” or “I am doing depression”.

Next, get curious about your own processes. When you feel excited, how are you creating that?

Get curious about how and when people discovered their interests and passions.

When a woman tells me she does martial arts, I am not so interested in what kind. I am far MORE interested in how she first discovered she enjoyed it. And what is it that maintains that interest and passion? What is it that she finds most enjoyable and most challenging?

Here’s another hint: listen for when women reveal any kind of process that involves their imagination and fantasies and obsessions. If, for instance, she mentions that sometimes she gets bored at work and drifts off into daydreams, don’t go blasting past that.

She’s just volunteered something about a very useful process that we can take hold of and link to ourselves.

Here’s another one: listen for her person metaphor.

I was working with a student who said, “I feel like I am going off the deep end”.

Now, that’s not anything that is literally happening. He wasn’t actually standing at a swimming pool at the deep end. It was a metaphoric way of envisioning his experience that wasn’t serving him.

And he wasn’t even aware he was using a metaphor.

I untied that by forbidding him to use any metaphors when describing challenging emotional flows. He is allowed to say, “I am feeling a state of frustration” or “I am feeling a state of sadness”. That is more literal and more useful.

These are just some hints.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Fans,

Today I was thinking about some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”.

By “back game” I mean what you do when you are not actively sarging.

This could be doing your daily meditation practice.

It could be keeping a Sarging journal(mandatory).

But it could also be recognizing when you are doing too much analysis with too little data.

Let’s unpack this further.

Let’s say you’ve done 5 sarges.  You got some seemingly good responses and out of those, you’ve managed to set up 1 good, solid meet up.

Rather than focus on preparing yourself for the meet-up, you start chewing on what happened with those other 4.

Now don’t get me wrong; I want you to keep that journal and review every Sarge, noticing first what you did right, and then what could be improved.

But you need to understand that 5 attempts don’t give you nearly enough examples to extract any conclusive direction or data.

You simply need to do less chewing and more doing.

Rather than trying to take things apart at this stage, go and do at least 5, preferably 10 more sarges.

You might find that correcting your “back game” in this way actually brings more leverage than any tweak you may do in the field, because it gives you more good, real world examples to sift.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.   OK, chew on this: inside Nail Your Inner Game, you’ll find The Ultimate Sarge Review Process – the simple 20 minute process you’ll use at the end of every Sarge that (among other things) gets you back in the field doing things right, with easy, effortless confidence.  Click here to discover everything inside Nail Your Inner Game now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As you continue to master the skills and claim your success with the women you truly desire, there are different ways you can change yourself.

This short video reveals an important distinction:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key ingredient of achieving greater success with the women you truly desire is something I call the ABS Principle.

It doesn’t mean Anti-Lock Braking System, though once you apply it you’ll find a much smoother path, with less sudden, hard stops, to getting more women.

It also doesn’t means “abs”.  No bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, or biceps here.

Abs-olutely not.  No desperate supplication or AFC-ery here.

You might call it the Anti-Masturbation Breakthrough System.  Actually, I might call it that.

Whatever you call it, the ABS Principle boils down to this: 

Always Be Sarging

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: I don’t go somewhere to Sarge, I Sarge when I go places.

Being a man who claims his choice to meet, seduce, and enjoy rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle must be part of who you are and what you do.  Not an “event” as in “Hey dude, wanna go out and scout some babes tonight?”

Effective goal-setting is also an important part of the ABS Principle.  Forget “impressing that chick” or “scoring with that babe.”  No.  A Speed Seducer® focuses on continually improving and mastering his skills that get him success not only with the woman in front of him now, but also the next ten HB10s he meets.

Why is this so important? When you put alot of energy, enthusiasm and focus into any ONE woman, and things don’t open up for you as you wish, then all of that energy (better used for Sarging in this case) has nowhere to go.

Think of it this way: when the girl you play with becomes the girl you want to stay with, you will have more assurance that you are stepping into the life you truly deserve, not settling on a real-hate-shun-ship by default.

How will you find that fine femme if you’re limiting yourself by making Sarging an “event?”

Again: Always Be Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Today is the day you will claim control of your life and start meeting, flirting, dating, seducing, and sleeping with sexy, beautiful women, fast and easy, immersing yourself in and mastering the lessons and teachings inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a blast from the past, straight off of YouTube.  In the fall of 1992 (that’s 19 years ago) I was a panelist on the Faith Daniels Show.

Be prepared to see how bad “social programming” was even back then.  After you watch this video, leave a comment with your thoughts.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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