Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

We are bombarded with social programming by the Romance Racketeers through romance movies.   The scripts brainwash us into believing the way to a woman’s heart is through dates, flowers, and all sorts of events.

It’s so damn predictable I could write one of these off the top of my head.

Blah, blah, blah, don’t worry, the ratings demand the “hero” ultimately wins.  Happily after ever, wedding bells ringing in AFC-Ville, yada yada.

That is, until one of my students approaches her at Whole Foods and introduces her to The Boyfriend Destroyer then tells her about what his buddy saw on the Discovery channel the other night. 

Meanwhile, here I am, urging, warning, teaching you, never engage in dating rituals with a woman you haven’t slept with yet.

A major point of resistance I encounter is this belief that “everybody takes girls out on dates”, and skepticism: will women really leap into your arms for a hot, steamy make-out session within 20 minutes of meeting? 

Well, Should You Go Out With Her?

First of all, when I say “don’t take women out on dates” I mean don’t rely on buying her food and entertainment as your primary ways of creating connection, attraction, arousal and fascination.  

Sure.  I’ve taken girls out for an evening, but I’ve already gotten them attracted to me. Do you understand?  It’s not that there’s something inherently wrong with going out, but there can be if it’s too distracting. The challenge is, don’t use that as your primary means of creating attraction.

Now Change The Script

Secondly, the minute you ask a girl out on a date, all the checklists and the social proof and social programming is going to pop up. Never phrase it as a date. Say, “Let‟s hang out,” or “Let‟s go for a walk,” or whatever it is. Can you make that shift in your language with women?

Don’t ask, “Can I take you out?” because again, immediately all the stuff comes up. “He’s not my type. What will my friends think?”  Etc.  Get that s&#t out of your Sargy path.  

Third: When you do meet up with her, remember that mantra of sales: “location, location, location.”

It must be quiet so you’re not interrupted. Don’t go someplace really loud where you can’t get them to focus and it makes it difficult to focus on her, and her on you.

Really smart guys call ahead even if they don’t take reservations and ask for one anyway, to make sure they get seated the way that boosts your chances and opens the door for you.

Does that sound like a better scene?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. When you show up for the meet, when you hang out, take that walk, go over there and sit for 20 minutes, your chances increase of it leading to a steaming hot make-out session when you show up attractive.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

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Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master In Training,

I’ve been getting mail and email from around the world from folks begging me to answer one question:

“Ross, are you going to do a Magick seminar this year?”

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Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There seems to be some confusion on the topics of being tested by women, screening women, women taking the lead, and fractionation.

A question I get asked fairly often: is there a difference between the “tests” women try to put men through on his journey to the Province of Poon vs. a man’s (or for that matter a woman’s) efforts to screen prospects to find the mate they find most appealing?

Is giving in to her “tests” a form of desperate supplication?

To understand this, we must properly define a few terms.

Some of it can be accurately viewed as “tests”; meaning that the person is seeking a response that may not be consciously in their awareness and also is not expressed directly.

That is a HUMAN trait. We ALL do this. Men AND women.

What I have learned, when it comes to sex, is that many of what “seem” like tests are actually about her needs.  Such as:

Trust – being well led (but not 100%; it’s fun to give over the lead and many women can handle taking it for a while to some extent).

And most importantly: women need to be FRACTIONATED.

When it comes to sex/intimacy etc. women need fractionation.

Often, what SEEMS like resistance or pulling away or testing is just her own way of fractionating her connecting to you so that it is more appealing when the connection returns.

I really do NOT think this is at all conscious. It’s just what they, hard-wired in the brain, NEED to feel sufficiently aroused etc.

They aren’t testing for “strength” etc etc in these cases. They just are attempting to “self medicate” in a sense and assist the process of their own desire.

Many guys, with our driving need to penetrate, penetrate, PENETRATE NOW NOW NOW have a hard time grasping this concept.

Think this over and let it penetrate your brain.  It will raise your ability to perceive what’s really going on around you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Look: I am not a fan of online dating.

However, a lot of you are demanding more teaching on it.  Plus, members of my Coaching Program are adapting my teachings to online dating (as long as they follow a few simple rules to steer clear of Let’s Be Friends-Ville).

Watch this video where I show you how to “use what she gives you” online:

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Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As you know, National Desperate Supplicating Masturbator’s Day (Valentine’s Day) is coming up next week.

I have no problem with you choosing, of your free will, to spend a few bucks on a woman who is already in your life and who is already treating you the way you want and expect to be treated. Just don’t depend on money to be the way you go about capturing and leading her imagination and emotions.

However: I hope you don’t spend as much as one dime on the woman or women in your life that you are not currently sleeping with.

As I keep telling you guys over and over again, we as men are bombarded and brainwashed by our popular culture from the time we are children to believe all sorts of myths about what works with women.

Among these lies:

*Just be yourself. (Do I need to say anything further about this steaming pile of bullshit?)

*Be a beggar. Plead and please her.

*Pay up. Buy women’s favor. Cards, presents, fancy dinners, diamonds. Show you value that poonani of hers by what you are willing to pay for it.

*Bully your way into a woman’s pants: in other words, be a jerk

*Lie: bullshit your way in. Tell her what she wants to hear.

Now, Valentine’s Day is a prime example of begging and buying. And if you think about it more clearly, it’s also an example of BS’ing.

Does anyone seriously expect anyone to believe the BS sentiment expressed in those idiotic cards?

I say, screw it. I have no problem with stimulating women. In fact, I love doing it. But I do it without spending one penny-until AFTER they are sleeping with me. And I do it by using my language and my vibe to capture and lead her imagination and emotions.

You can do it too.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. On February 14, join me on a LIVE video broadcast where we will cover this, and other topics as we “Give V-Day The Finger“

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

So, you’re reading this because you want to have more wonderful winsome women ride your baloney pony eh?

Really?  No way.  Can’t believe it.  You’re on the Speed Seduction® blog for THAT?  Tell me another one.

Or as some might say, “Get outta town!”

And sometimes that’s the answer: get outta town if you want to turbo-boost your girl-getting game.

One of my students regularly attends industry conferences and seminars as part of his business.  He focuses on attending a handful of really big events (at least 300 people) each year for two reasons.  #1, to work on growing his business.  And also #1, to work it with the ladies in attendance.

At the networking luncheons, he oftentimes finds himself at a table with mostly (if not entirely) women – not even by conscious plan.  He says it just works out that way.  And that it usually works so well that at least one guy will pull him aside and ask him how he does it. 

Hit-And-Run Hustler, Or Outta Town Adventurer?

My six words for you: when you’re outta town, push it.

See how much you can get laid.  See if you can get a girl right away, even faster than in your own neighborhood.

In fact I’ll bet your odds of success are higher than usual.  Why?  I believe the big reason is that you know you don’t have a lot of time to f@@k around.  Women will know their window of opportunity with you is very narrow.

Also, a lot of women aren’t looking for an emotional connection. The guy, from outta town, who comes into town and f@@ks her good is safe emotionally. That’s the ironic thing.  Use that to your advantage. See how hard you can push it.

Remember: when you don’t know what to do, take a bold step forward.  Make that your motto.

And, and, and: how about this: Less care, more dare.

Make that your chant. See what it does for you. Do you feel me?

You don’t need to say anything further.  Don’t complicate it. Make that your mantra. As you head outta town, on the airplane or in the car, rehearse success.  Rehearse from her perspective looking at you, getting dripping wet and wanting to f@@k you.

Less care, more dare.

Now get outta town.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The real genius of Speed Seduction® 3.0 isn’t just the suggestive language – it’s also the clever way in which it’s structured to seem like a perfectly ordinary conversation!  Be that interesting, intriguing “outta town” guy who offers the experience of a lifetime, instead of the hit-and-run hustler.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’ve said before that pretty much every woman, regardless of her position on the HB scale, is probably at some stage of “seeing someone” or at very least, is no more than a couple phone dials away from an on-demand booty call.

That doesn’t make it any less annoying when she says she’s “seeing someone”, as this student relates:

> I’ve been casually dating this smoking 24 year old (I’m 50). I’ve run some connection patterns and done some values elicitation and she has been quite responsive, but she says she’s seeing some other guy.

> The other night I was out and she was at a bar a few blocks away watching her “guy” play in his band and texted me to come to see her at said bar. I texted back, told her thank but no thanks, I’m not interested in that scene.  Ten minutes later she shows up where I am, we talked some, I ran some patterns and we ended up making out in the corner.

> She’s calling me but I’m not interested in being friends (which she is hinting at) haven’t run the boyfriend destroyer or blammo yet. Your thoughts?

RJ here.

Sounds to me like you are waiting for an engraved, gold-lettered invitation to get physical. Mistake.

You are over-valuing her because of her looks and youth. Re-position this in your mind as an opportunity for her to get a real f@@king from a seasoned guy who knows his ass from his elbow in the sack.

Don’t worry or even think very much at all about the other guy.  He doesn’t know Speed Seduction®. You do.

Rather than look for too many more patterns I’d adjust your thoughts and attitudes towards being more sexually forward and owning and claiming your sexual intent with your women who please, satisfy and delight you in every way.

She’s waiting.  For you.  Now what in Nicole’s knickers are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. “Sexual Aggression Mastery” shows you how to reclaim your natural sexual aggression and dominance, understand the deep dynamics of female sexuality, “close the deal” with mastery AND still be a “good hearted” guy who loves women, just like this student here.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Too often, the focus of self-improvement is to react to a crisis.  I propose a new way of thinking:

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Once again, so-called “Valentine’s Day” is coming up. Once again, the Romance Racketeers are rubbing their slimy hands together with rapacious glee.

All over, guys hoping to “wow” that special someone are making reservations at swanky restaurants, snagging seventh-row seats at expensive shows, buying diamonds and jewelry and chocolates and roses, and all that rot.

(That’s right…they’ll go straight down the drain.)

They’re spending extra time at the gym, racing against time trying (and failing) to blast away the remaining holiday pudge in hopes of being in “tip top shape” for the “big date” – the EVENT that’s 13 days away from today.

Who knows, it might pay off.

She might even kiss him on the cheek along with cooing “Awwwww, how sweet!” when he springs the “big surprise” on her.

WOW. Sounds awesome!

Since Tuesday is a “work night” in many parts of the world, she’ll probably want to call it a night around 9 or 10, so she’ll send him away with another peck on the cheek and an urge to “call me, please” with a subtle hint that she “might be available” this weekend.

This is how the 14th will go for the Money Man.

Here’s the thing, though.

She’ll be peeking out the window watching for the moment Mr. Chocolates And Roses And Expensive Dinners And Shows drives off into the sunset.

At the taillights’ last gleaming as he speeds off, thinking he’s a “lock” for a hot make out session this weekend… she’ll nibble on one of the chocolates, then pull out her phone and dial up the man who, within the next 45 minutes or so, will be in her bed, tasting her sweets.

This privileged, skillful gent with money in his pockets is the Honey Man.

The Vaginal Victor On V-Day!

And the best part: he keeps his money AND gets her honey.

Which scenario sounds better to you? (That’s what I thought.)

So join me at 12:00 Noon Pacific on Tuesday, February 14 for this year’s “Give V-Day The Finger” Live Video Broadcast Event!

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Peace, piece, and see you there,

RJ

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