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Interrogation vs. Exploration: Wrecking Your Sarge By HOW You Ask?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 3rd, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

What you ask a woman is as important as HOW.  Are you demonstrating genuine consideration, or conducting an interrogation?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. This video is ripped straight out of our Speed Seduction® Coaching Program which also gets you opportunities to speak with me, in person, LIVE.  You can try the Coaching Program for $1 for the first 30 days when you claim your instant access to Speed Seduction® 3.0 right now

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Interrogation vs. Exploration: Wrecking Your Sarge By HOW You Ask?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 3rd, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

What you ask a woman is as important as HOW.  Are you demonstrating genuine consideration, or conducting an interrogation?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. This video is ripped straight out of our Speed Seduction® Coaching Program which also gets you opportunities to speak with me, in person, LIVE.  You can try the Coaching Program for $1 for the first 30 days when you claim your instant access to Speed Seduction® 3.0 right now

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[LONDON AND EUROPE] A Fast 132-Hour Heads-Up…

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 3rd, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

RJ here, with a quick heads-up.

The 3-Day Live Seminar in London (July 6, 7, and 8 ) is fast approaching – it’s just over 2 months away.

If you have been strongly considering signing up but just need a little motor-vation to take that important step, here it is:

First, the “3-pay” option ends at 11:59 AM Pacific on Tuesday, May 8 (that’s just 5 days from now). True, you’ll still be able to register up until the day of the event, and for a limited time we’ll have other options, but they won’t be as easy as spreading it across 3 payments.

So if the chance to pay via a 3-pay plan is highly important to you, it’s highly in your best interest to claim your seat now.

Equally as important, you will get LOTS of pre-training. I don’t know any other seminar in this market that provides so much training BEFORE you set foot in the seminar room at the beginning of Day 1…

  • As soon as you complete your online registration, you receive immediate access to a 3-part video “prep course” to help you get some pre-work done even before the seminar so you hit the ground running in London;
  • Attendees of any one 2012 3-day seminar get the footage from ALL FOUR seminars we’re holding this year. That means, YOU will have access to the LA seminar footage immediately as well as the Atlanta footage in the next few weeks so you can get a “jump” on things.

Again: if you are strongly considering attending the London seminar and just need a little friendly nudge to move you in that direction, this is it.

[To grab your seat, click here ==> http://www.rjseminar.com/]

 

It’s Different In 2012…

This year, we’re creating not just a seminar, but an experience.

Here’s just part of what’s new and exciting…

Everyone who registers now:

  • Gets access to a brand-new, pre-event Seminar Prep Course, immediately upon registration
  • Has the chance to attend three (3) 1-hour webinars, after the seminar, to get your post-event questions answered (held at approximately the 30, 60, and 90 day marks after the seminar ends)
  • Receives the footage of the seminar you attended, within 30 days of the last day of the event

Does this sound great, or does this sound great? If you’re ready to learn more and sign up, http://www.rjseminar.com/

 

And Actually, There’s MORE

Not only will you, as a seminar attendee, receive the footage for the seminar you attended…you will actually receive the footage for all four live 3-day seminars in 2012!

Get the scoop at http://www.rjseminar.com/

 

No One Supports You And Guarantees
Your Success Like I Do

I’ll come right out and say it:

No other teacher in the seduction community even claims to do what I can and will do for you, no matter where you find yourself with women.

I back this up with a guarantee that NO ONE ELSE DARES to offer. At http://www.rjseminar.com/ you will learn how I guarantee the results not only during, but AFTER the seminar you attend.

 

I’m Making It REAL EASY FOR YOU
To Register, Too!

I am offering payment plans. You can full-pay your registration, or you can make payments, as you’ll see on the website. What’s easier than that?

But please know: since registration must be paid in full before the seminar, the payment plans will disappear as we get closer to the date of each seminar.

In just 5 days (at 11:59 AM Pacific on Tuesday, May 8 ) the London seminar’s three-pay option will disappear.

Don’t delay.

 

So, Enough Jibber-Jabber, Let’s Just Make This Happen

Your results and your future await you. Right now.

Just go to http://www.rjseminar.com/ to claim your seat now.

Also, you can bring a guest for free. I explain how this works on the website.

And if you have any questions, just e-mail Lisa at orders@seduction.com or call (323) 252-1531 (if you get voicemail, be sure to leave your phone number so we can call you back.)

I look forward to seeing YOU at our next seminar!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. To maintain the quality of our seminars, seating is limited at every event. So high-tail it, get your ass over to http://www.rjseminar.com and register online right now!

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“…It Was Game ON!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 1st, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There’s a BIG difference between the way we’re being socially programmed by the romance industry and artificial societal expectation bullshit, vs. WHAT REALLY WORKS when it comes to approaching women.

What the f@@k does “Just be yourself and she’ll like you for you” mean, anyway?

You can go on taking advice like this, watching how the AFC “hero” on a Lifetime movie perseveres and finally scores the big dinner date (his treat) when the girl of his dreams finally rewards him for being so patient while she was doing the naked pretzel with that “jerk”.

Or, you can take cues from an actual Speed Seduction® student who’s mastering the skills and claiming his success with the women he truly desires.  Let’s see what he has to say:

Today I woke up nice and early and went to go get a energy drink before my workout. I saw this cute little black haired, nice tan, girl working behind the counter, and it was game on.

I’m not bragging that I’m getting that good… but one year ago today, I would have said “Oh, shes hot and probably has a
boyfriend”. How things have changed!

Here’s how it went:

ME: Are you a martial artist?

HER: No, why?

ME: I noticed you when I walked and you carry yourself with a lot of discipline, it’s just that, I really admire that in a woman so I had to say something.

HER: (smiles)

ME: You’re not the type of girl who likes to learn about herself, are you?

HER: What do you mean?

ME: I learned how to read palms and would like to read yours.

EMBEDDED COMMAND TIME!!!!

After reading her palm and sending wonderful suggestions and commands on “How we connect with someone we’re really gonna get to like” she asks:

HER: where did you learn this?

ME: “I was overseas and I was at this bar where there was this guy writing about a book about psychology and he was saying when two people meet, and they’re both attracted to each other and both know it, they start to feel that…

HER: …Connection?

ME: Right. They begin to feel that connection really building between two people.

Then I finished the pattern and her friend butted in and said “read my palm”.

So, it was a good fractionation I guess.  I read her friend’s palm then went back to the hot black haired girl.

ME: Have you ever played the cube game?

HER: No.

ME: It’s just like palm reading but almost exactly to the T.  I’d like to take you out sometime and get to know the person wrapped inside all of the pretty. What would be the process to do that?

HER: (Gives me her number) (then I smile and leave).

RJ here again. Typically I recommend scheduling the time to go out rather than getting her number. Her phone number is what you use to call her AFTER she rides your baloney pony.

But she was at work. Maybe she had a line of customers forming and she was out of time at the moment.

Speed Seduction® is not a script; it’s a SYSTEM that gives you tools to adapt to your ACTUAL interactions with women.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Understanding the real psychology of what gets women hot bothered and ready to go will give you an advantage over almost every other guy out there.  This is what you’ll learn inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

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“…It Was Game ON!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on May 1st, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There’s a BIG difference between the way we’re being socially programmed by the romance industry and artificial societal expectation bullshit, vs. WHAT REALLY WORKS when it comes to approaching women.

What the f@@k does “Just be yourself and she’ll like you for you” mean, anyway?

You can go on taking advice like this, watching how the AFC “hero” on a Lifetime movie perseveres and finally scores the big dinner date (his treat) when the girl of his dreams finally rewards him for being so patient while she was doing the naked pretzel with that “jerk”.

Or, you can take cues from an actual Speed Seduction® student who’s mastering the skills and claiming his success with the women he truly desires.  Let’s see what he has to say:

Today I woke up nice and early and went to go get a energy drink before my workout. I saw this cute little black haired, nice tan, girl working behind the counter, and it was game on.

I’m not bragging that I’m getting that good… but one year ago today, I would have said “Oh, shes hot and probably has a
boyfriend”. How things have changed!

Here’s how it went:

ME: Are you a martial artist?

HER: No, why?

ME: I noticed you when I walked and you carry yourself with a lot of discipline, it’s just that, I really admire that in a woman so I had to say something.

HER: (smiles)

ME: You’re not the type of girl who likes to learn about herself, are you?

HER: What do you mean?

ME: I learned how to read palms and would like to read yours.

EMBEDDED COMMAND TIME!!!!

After reading her palm and sending wonderful suggestions and commands on “How we connect with someone we’re really gonna get to like” she asks:

HER: where did you learn this?

ME: “I was overseas and I was at this bar where there was this guy writing about a book about psychology and he was saying when two people meet, and they’re both attracted to each other and both know it, they start to feel that…

HER: …Connection?

ME: Right. They begin to feel that connection really building between two people.

Then I finished the pattern and her friend butted in and said “read my palm”.

So, it was a good fractionation I guess.  I read her friend’s palm then went back to the hot black haired girl.

ME: Have you ever played the cube game?

HER: No.

ME: It’s just like palm reading but almost exactly to the T.  I’d like to take you out sometime and get to know the person wrapped inside all of the pretty. What would be the process to do that?

HER: (Gives me her number) (then I smile and leave).

RJ here again. Typically I recommend scheduling the time to go out rather than getting her number. Her phone number is what you use to call her AFTER she rides your baloney pony.

But she was at work. Maybe she had a line of customers forming and she was out of time at the moment.

Speed Seduction® is not a script; it’s a SYSTEM that gives you tools to adapt to your ACTUAL interactions with women.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Understanding the real psychology of what gets women hot bothered and ready to go will give you an advantage over almost every other guy out there.  This is what you’ll learn inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Claim your instant access now!

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Overcoming Approach Anxiety: 3 Ways To Have Fun And Blast Past It

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 29th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

For many students, overcoming approach anxiety can’t be done by simply saying “suck it up and get in there, champ!”

Even (perhaps especially) if that message is delivered by your well-meaning buddies surrounding you at the party: “There she is.  She’s f@@king HOT.  Dude.  DUDE.  GO FOR IT!”

Approach anxiety can be scary. Scary things aren’t fun.

But what if you could have fun with it?  Would it be a little less scary?

Perhaps one or more of the following would help:

1. Laugh. Seriously – laugh.  Imagine the silliest f@@king thing you can happening.  Like she rejects you and you turn into a pink rabbit with a fluffy tail.

2. Deliberately see how many rejections you can get. Rather than fighting rejection, paradoxically seek it out. Think of the stupidest think you could possibly say (without being threatening or offensive) and then try your best to get rejected and, at all costs, NOT get accepted or welcomed.  Give yourself a reward for each rejection-say a favorite meal or a porn movie or whatever you like.

3. Admit your truth to the woman. Walk up and say, “Excuse me, but I am totally terrified of talking to woman and I’ve really had enough of surrendering to fear.  So I know this may seem uncomfortable, but you are really helping me just by letting me do this”.

Sound crazy?

You will be shocked at how kind most people are when faced when genuine vulnerability and emotional honesty.  Why? Because on some level, ALL humans carry around a lot of fear. So someone who will admit it, appears as very brave!

No shit!

A lot of the problem with fear of approaching is guys try to HIDE the fear from the other person. So rather than hide it, FEATURE it.

Still sound crazy?

What’s crazy is doing the same thing you’ve been doing up until now and expecting a different result.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Arousal Vs. It’s On: What Happens Between Them?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 26th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There is a crucial difference between the paths traveled by men and by women on the path to where both meet up for the ride on the baloney pony:

The sooner you master this, the more you’ll up your game.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  This is a preliminary concept that lays the foundation for Sexual Aggression Mastery and Showing Up Attractive.

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Should You? (Psst…Watch Your Language!)

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 24th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A student of mine who has bought a few courses reported back to me on his progress learning and mastering the skills.

Part of his self-assessment featured the “chewing vs. doing” penumbra:

“I’m realizing what I’ve been doing throughout this whole time of trying to learn Speed Seduction®. I was trying to go over it so much and asking, ‘Am I getting it? Am I not?’ I wasn’t going out there and taking the risks I should be.”

And that last part, is a big part of the problem, right there.  He needs to watch his language.

It’s not “as I should be.”

“Should” is a tricky thing. “Should” sounds like you’re making a commitment. “Should” sounds like you’re stepping into action. In reality, “should” makes no commitment to action at all.

I can say, “I really should go workout tomorrow.” It doesn’t do anything as far as actually directing my mind to take a single step. It’s not what you should be doing, but what you choose to be doing and what you claim to be doing.

This is an easy way that people block themselves. They say, “I really should commit to working out tomorrow.”  That’s a way of delaying. That’s a way of procrastinating. It’s putting off the decision.

What if I say to you, “Would you meet me tomorrow at 7:00 p.m. and I’ll give you $1,000?” You say, “I really should.” That is not a promise to show up. That’s not saying, “Yes, I will.” or “Yes, I choose to do so.”

(Hey I don’t know about you but, f@@k, if you’re going to give me $1,000, I’ll be there.)

Another thing we do in Speed Seduction® is watch to see how thoughts are formulated. In the process of learning how your thoughts are formulated, you learn about how other people do it.

Then you begin to lose your fear and dread of other people because you see how deeply stuck they are. They’re stuck in the same world you used to be.  Even when they frustrate you, you begin to develop a kind of compassion.

You say, “Wait a minute. I see how that’s being produced in them.”  

This is really a wonderful opportunity to do a lot more than get good at attracting chicks.

Start by watching your language.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Rejection: Does It Get Women Who Play Games Into Your Bed?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 20th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Think about this for a minute: why do some women play games?

A woman’s motivation for playing games (or for acting like a drama queen) is often that she wants to lose the game. The way she loses the game is you reject her a little. That will show her that you can create the drama she needs to feel attracted to you.

I hate to say it, but that’s what’s going on. You have to be willing to reject her.

What she really wants to see is if you are willing to walk away from her. That’s when it appeals to her. She needs a little bit of drama and someone who’s willing to show that he’ll reject her, because guys have rejected her in the past.

A woman who play games, generally speaking, is afraid of intimacy. She needs to pick guys who are going to reject her
sooner or later. This happens unconsciously. She doesn’t put it together verbally.

In her mind, it goes like this. She thinks, “Whenever I get close to guys, they reject me. That’s good because I’m miserable and afraid of really opening to a guy. I’m only going to pick guys who will show me that they’ll reject me and make me feel hurt.”

In this case, she’s doing it because she wants to feel rejected. Once she feels rejected, then she’ll feel safe to have sex with you because she knows that you’re not going to let her really get close and she doesn’t have to really open up.

That’s what’s going on.

Chew on that for a bit, and share your thoughts below.

Peace and peace,

RJ

P.S. Students at our LIVE Speed Seduction® seminars experience profound personal trance-formation while you learn exactly what it takes to breakthrough with women and get the success you want and deserve.

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Rejection: Does It Get Women Who Play Games Into Your Bed?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on April 20th, 2012

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Think about this for a minute: why do some women play games?

A woman’s motivation for playing games (or for acting like a drama queen) is often that she wants to lose the game. The way she loses the game is you reject her a little. That will show her that you can create the drama she needs to feel attracted to you.

I hate to say it, but that’s what’s going on. You have to be willing to reject her.

What she really wants to see is if you are willing to walk away from her. That’s when it appeals to her. She needs a little bit of drama and someone who’s willing to show that he’ll reject her, because guys have rejected her in the past.

A woman who play games, generally speaking, is afraid of intimacy. She needs to pick guys who are going to reject her
sooner or later. This happens unconsciously. She doesn’t put it together verbally.

In her mind, it goes like this. She thinks, “Whenever I get close to guys, they reject me. That’s good because I’m miserable and afraid of really opening to a guy. I’m only going to pick guys who will show me that they’ll reject me and make me feel hurt.”

In this case, she’s doing it because she wants to feel rejected. Once she feels rejected, then she’ll feel safe to have sex with you because she knows that you’re not going to let her really get close and she doesn’t have to really open up.

That’s what’s going on.

Chew on that for a bit, and share your thoughts below.

Peace and peace,

RJ

P.S. Students at our LIVE Speed Seduction® seminars experience profound personal trance-formation while you learn exactly what it takes to breakthrough with women and get the success you want and deserve.

Will you join me in Atlanta next weekend?

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