“Naturals” vs. Speed Seducers – Are Commands And Anchors Necessary?
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Recently on this blog, I touched on the idea that some guys seem to be able to get any woman, any time, without even trying. Using the example of the gentleman who seemed to be able to seduce a woman by just touching her hip, I pointed out that there’s more to the story.
Without knowing this, however, it makes sense that some guys wonder: is it possible to be succesful with women like the so called “naturals” – meaning without using embedded commands, anchors, etc. etc.?
By natural, I mean: a man who is not always consciously aware of what he is doing to attract and seduce women.
Here’s a thought / teaching point for you:
“Naturals” don’t fight themselves or second guess what they want to do or have done. ZERO internal struggle.
Every “natural” I’ve known or modeled never, ever worries about the results once they’ve taken action.
They don’t wonder, “What if this doesn’t work?”
Or “Maybe I should have said something else.”
Or “I probably shoudn’t have walked away”.
They also don’t fight themselves in the moment. That means that when they want to talk to a woman there isn’t another part of their mind pulling in the other direction saying “Wait! Don’t! She probably has a boyfriend.” Or “Wait til you think of the right thing to say!”
A natural may not even be “confident” in the traditional sense of knowing he’s going to get the girl. But he IS confident in the sense of having zero internal struggle. When he moves, he moves with both feet instead of one foot staying stuck.
This is important whether or not you are consciously doing patterns, commands, and anchors.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. When you register for a Live 3-Day Seminar, in addition to all of the in-person changework we’ll be doing to blast you through these barriers, you will get immediate access to an online “prep course” that covers this as well.
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