“So Close, Yet…”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 6th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction Master-In-Training,

Ever found yourself in a situation where you SWEAR you did everything right with a woman, yet for some reason it seems like the magic “wasn’t there?”

ca_30456820_180If you haven’t found yourself there at least once, then you’re like the salesman who has never been rejected… meaning you’ve never REALLY put yourself out there… also meaning what you THINK is the biggest score of your life to-date is nothing more than a sample taste of what CAN and WILL be once you do…

Check out this note from a student of mine:

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I just got back from an evening out with a very attractive woman and I’m frustrated. I thought I did everything right – capturing her imagination, using patterns, fractionating, redirecting her vibe, etc. At several points when she seemed “in trance” I leaned in to her and she responded by smiling and leaning in to me.

At the end of the evening I walked her back to her car, gave her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. We agreed to meet again. All well and good? If things are going so well, why do I feel like I managed to capture her imagination but didn’t lead it very well?

It seems to be a bit of a pattern with me. I meet women, get into great conversations with them, steer them towards me, but I don’t seem to be able lead them to places which let them feel interested or comfortable enough to want to go any further.

Like I’m so close, yet can’t cross the finish line?

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OK: Stop right here.  This is SOOO obvious. 

You have a little “block” on getting physical.  You said you leaned in several times and she smiled and leaned back.  So what’s the problem?  You didn’t have to “lead” her anywhere.  She already HAD her ticket to the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and was waiting for you to take her to lift-off!

Here’s the problem: something in your head is waiting for verbal permission to kiss her!

What is this hug on the cheek bullshit?  Dude, she was probably ready to at least blow you on the spot!

I suggest you change your beliefs about getting physical… and change it NOW!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If you’ve ever encountered problems “closing the deal” on your Sarge, I’ve got the accelerator that gets you across the Finish line so you can enjoy the women you really want.

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