Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Expanding on the principle of witness consciousness that I described in Part 1 of this week’s posting on the Seven Pillars of Seduction Success, here’s a clip from my presentation at Neil Strauss’ recent seminar.

Among other concepts, I describe the “meditation cushion” and sensory clarity.  Watch now:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday in Part 1, we looked at various aspects of mental training and behavior rehearsal that constitute the first part of Speed Seduction®.

So now, let us delve into the second part.  These next Pillars have to do with mastering some simple introductions to women – having two or three things you can always say in any situation to open women, two or three basic ways to open women in any situation.

PILLAR #3: Creative Ways To Engage Women

Once the mental training is down pat, we begin to develop two or three ways to engage women in a more creative and imaginative way once you do open that first conversation. So just have two or three different ways of doing that.

PILLAR #4: Ability To Sexualize

You can memorize all the patterns in the world – Discovery Channel, Twin Brothers, Snack Quiz, Blow Job, Boyfriend Destroyer – but these don’t amount to a can of beans until you are able to sexualize – to use sexual metaphor, to use her own responses, to use your touch, to use these various Speed Seduction tools to get her hot and horny. 

PILLAR #5: Escalation

At the appropriate time, you must know how, and have the tools, to escalate physically. This works in conunction with…

PILLAR #6: Her Responses

With Speed Seduction®, knowing how to deal with women’s autopilot responses effectively and powerfully is critical.  Remember: part of the mastery involves knowing how to calibrate.

PILLAR #7: Motivation

Pulling it all together, you need a really good way of keeping yourself motivated and learning from every situation, learning effectively and powerfully.

Because even though you won’t instantly and automatically get laid every time, EVERY situation with a woman gives you something you need to succeed with the next ten women.

The more you have it made, the more you’ll get laid.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever heard of a magnificient palace – or even a shack – that stood erect on a flexible foundation?

Didn’t think so.

Mastering your girl-getting game is not one iota different.

Achieving ultimate success with the women you truly desire is like living in a magnificent Palace of Poon, its vast, sumptuous chambers replete with vaginal victory.

To support such a palace, we need a firm foundation.

This foundation is formed by…

…The Seven Pillars Of Seduction Success

PILLAR #1: Mental Training

First and foremost, we need to be able to do some mental training.  This requires witness consciousness – the ability to notice our patterns of thinking, feeling, and interpreting the world as they’re arising gently, before they arise with so much momentum and force that they drag us back down the learning curve into our old ways of doing things.

I can assure you, when you go to any area of life that has a lot of repetition and a lot of emotional charge to it, the old stuff will come back. Having this skillset where you see these old patterns arising before they have enough momentum to block you, drive your behavior, and distort your perception is profoundly powerful. That’s the first part of the mental training.

PILLAR #2: Rehearsing New Behaviors

This includes tapping into your intuition and being able to do rituals like the magickal self ritual, where you take on the four vibes that attract women using affirmations and your language in the right way.  We call this creative consciousness.

These first two Pillars constitute a powerful part of the mental training. So, the mental training can be considered the first part of Speed Seduction®.

Now, meet me back here tomorrow when we reveal the rest of the Pillars.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When you know how to reclaim your sexual aggression and dominance with the same comfort and skill as your devotion and adoration, you’re well on your way to having the mental training down.  This is what you will discover in our Sexual Aggression Mastery Course.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently on this blog, I touched on the idea that some guys seem to be able to get any woman, any time, without even trying.  Using the example of the gentleman who seemed to be able to seduce a woman by just touching her hip, I pointed out that there’s more to the story.

Without knowing this, however, it makes sense that some guys wonder: is it possible to be succesful with women like the so called “naturals” – meaning without using embedded commands, anchors, etc. etc.?

By natural, I mean: a man who is not always consciously aware of what he is doing to attract and seduce women.

Here’s a thought / teaching point for you:

“Naturals” don’t fight themselves or second guess what they want to do or have done.  ZERO internal struggle.

Every “natural” I’ve known or modeled never, ever worries about the results once they’ve taken action.

They don’t wonder, “What if this doesn’t work?”

Or “Maybe I should have said something else.”

Or “I probably shoudn’t have walked away”.

They also don’t fight themselves in the moment. That means that when they want to talk to a woman there isn’t another part of their mind pulling in the other direction saying “Wait! Don’t! She probably has a boyfriend.” Or “Wait til you think of the right thing to say!”

A natural may not even be “confident” in the traditional sense of knowing he’s going to get the girl. But he IS confident in the sense of having zero internal struggle. When he moves, he moves with both feet instead of one foot staying stuck.

This is important whether or not you are consciously doing patterns, commands, and anchors.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Any sequence of mental thinking that you go through, starts with a flow of energy in the body that kickstarts the thought process.  That’s the Signal Recognition Process.

Click here to learn more:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This video clip is taken right out of our Fear Into Charisma module, which is one of the three laser-focused, nuts-and-bolts contained inside the Speed Seduction® Power Pack.  Get your copy today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Just the other day a student of mine shared an observation with me.

The moment a woman starts with “When are you going to take me out on a date?” or “I want you to wine and dine me” he immediately, instantaneously, inexorably, and irrevocably loses interest in her.

From what he tells me, it’s not because he has taken me up on my 60-day challenge or refuses to be in thrall of the romance racketeers.  Even though he does, indeed, embrace the former and reject the latter as smart men do.

As he puts it:

“There are no logistics hero action figures in the toy aisle!  Many action hero figures, though.”  

A “date” requires logistics.  Wining and dining is nothing but logistics: reservations at the restaurant, buying the wine, selecting the best after-dinner spot to enjoy the wine, transportation to/from.  And much more.

Another student told me about a street pickup he did last week that went nowhere.  She told him she is unsure of her schedule because she looks after kids, doesn’t know when she gets off work, but here’s my number, give me a call, we’ll work something out.  He’s losing faith as these phone numbers are not leading to “dates.”

Let’s review the latter case.  First I asked him:

How long did you talk with her? What states did you generate/evoke with her? How did you link these to you and to taking further action with you?

Now I’ll say it again: this isn’t about getting the behaviors you want from women: phone numbers and dates. It’s about evoking in them the emotional states and processes (fantasy, fascination, connection) that you want linked to you.

THEN the things like phone numbers and dates become logistical details.

See the difference?

If you aren’t thinking in these terms, you aren’t doing Speed Seduction®.  All that wining and dining isn’t leading to a whole lot of 69-ing, is it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Speed Seduction® 3.0 is your roadmap that zooms you from “zero to action hero” in your ways with the women.    No more will we negotiate with her i(Don’t-Actually-Answer-My)Phone to become lucky enough to buy her dinner.  Onward!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I recently received this e-mail from a student of mine about how Speed Seduction® helped him “up” his game with women this past New Years’.  No resolution, just motor-vation to success.

Let’s hear him share, in his own words:

Ross, I owe you a huge thank you for all of your free materials. I have never had any consistent luck with women and now it is fantastic. I have been following all of your rules and beliefs when approaching women and they have worked every time. I often find myself grounding a lot more often and this really seems to keep my focus and balance in check.

My New Years Eve started off great. I was at my third and final stop of the night when I say a gorgeous waitress across the room. I got her attention by snickering at her.  Your rule saved me from the start. “When in doubt take a bold step forward.” So I did. She asked me “What are you snickering at me for?” I replied “Because, I think you’re really cute.”  She said the same about me and then promptly said “Don’t go anywhere.” and she returned with her number.  Since the next day we were texting then in the bed room…..

If it was not for your free segment on “shutting down last minute hesitation” I would have been done. She said that “I just met you and we shouldn’t be doing this.” I then stopped to a breath and gently whisper to her “I understand and see your point. I too only want to do things that we are both truly comfortable with.” and bang it was on since then. She has been texting me nonstop and wanting to hangout. The other cool part of the story is we don’t even have much in common, I just seem to keep the patterns that I know working.

THIS IS A TRUE TESTIMONIAL TO ROSS’S TEACHING: She just graduated from a Major big name college with a psychology degree and can read me like a book. But Ross’s patterns slip right through all of her constant analyzing and work every time!!!!!!! This is great! Man I only wish I could view the entire new course, if one video made my new year perfect.

Ross, a true thanks from a grateful fan.

Al Levy
Council Bluffs, Iowa

RJ here again.  Did you catch that last part?

For those of you who still (misguidedly) think that top-notch, intelligent, sophisticated, intellectual women will not get wet, will not be irresistibly aroused, will not want to push forward in a new direction – that’s just not the case.  In Al’s case, the woman is specifically trained to pick up on patterns, persuasion techniques, etc.

The women are waiting.  What in Suzanne’s silk nightie are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The good news is – you can have my brand new course.  It’s called “Sexual Aggression Mastery” and it’s chock full of mindsets, skills, and techniques to get you through when resistance (either hers or yours) appears at the “moment of truth.”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The same energy that drives negative thoughts and feelings can be redirected to motor-vate you toward success with the women you truly desire:

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. This video clip is ripped right out of Nail Your Inner Game – the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck.  Best news is, anyone can use it.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

We’ve been hearing since childhood about how some guys just have a “way with women.”

For some reason, they’ve just “got it.”  Seems like they can get any girl they want.  They’re always in the company of beautiful women.

Here’s a note from a student that drives this point home:

> I had a friend who was a real natural.
>
> He said he would simply put his hand on her hip, and talk to her, while moving her hip about.

No… No… NO.

Look beneath the obvious and see what is really going on.

What is this guy doing with his intent, his will and his energy/vibe?

Get that down FIRST and then look at the pieces of behavior: where he puts his hand and where he moves her body.

How can you get a sinfully succulent co-ed steaming hot for you… so hot she’s turning beet red (in the moment, then all the next day at work)?

Without putting your hand on her hip or dancing with her.  Or even touching her.

I keep pointing at the moon.
You CONTINUE to stare at my finger.

Listen: it’s an axiom in science that if you look beneath the obvious things that people take for granted you will find out things everyone else is missing.

Does time flow uniformly, at the same rate, for all frames of reference? So it appears but in fact, it does not. Einstein looked behind and beneath the “obvious” truth to discover what is really going on.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. “Building Skill At Feel” is a pathway to true masculine power with women.  This is among the many things you learn in Showing Up Attractive, the companion course to Sexual Aggression Mastery.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

As you know, I am always interested in how the mind works and how to read/persuade our fellow humans.

In that regard, I want to recommend two fantastic books.  You can get them on Amazon, of course.

1. How We Decide by Jonah Lehrer  http://www.amazon.com/How-We-Decide-Jonah-Lehrer/dp/0618620117

This is an unbelievably important book for understanding the role of emotions in making good decisions and avoiding bad ones.  I’m only three chapters in and it is already blowing my mind. GET IT!

2. Louder Than Words by Joe Navarro http://www.amazon.com/Louder-Than-Words-Exceptional-Intelligence/dp/0061771392  Navarro puts every previous book I’ve read on reading people and “body language” to shame. A former FBI agent, he brings decades of law enforcement training to the table. An amazing, practical, no-BS, no padding book. GET IT!

If you’ve followed this blog for a good length of time, you know I very rarely recommend books. These two books deserve it.

RJ

P.S. I have no connection with these authors, have never met nor spoken with them and have no financial stake in these recommendations. I just think you will benefit from these books.